Well i dont want to have sex yet but he does and i love him and dont want to lose him!
2006-07-11 12:03:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him this qustion
2006-07-11 12:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have already told him and he has not respected your feelings in the matter, then there is nothing else you can do.
A man that refuses to respect your feelings about things now, will not just magically one day decide that he will.
You know the answer already if this is the case.
Now, if you have been uneasy about telling him NO, and he has not received a clear answer from you yet, you need to tell him.
There is no great awesome way to tell him, you just do it, before you start making out, not during, its kinda rude to do that.
Just tell him that you are not ready for sex now, or in the near future, that you enjoy being with him and look forward to getting to know each other better.
If he is truely interested in you, he will respect it, if he is only following his swollin head he will go looking for a way to reduce the swelling, and that is not the love you are looking for or need.
2006-07-11 12:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As difficult by using the undeniable fact that's to believe. some human beings in simple terms dont like oral sex! each and every now and then it cant be helped. Im one in all those human beings, who actually hates it. I hate the flavor of it, hate the feel of it, in simple terms each and every thing type of grosses me out, yet i respect sex. I in simple terms refuse to have oral sex with a guy. and regularly you are able to do all that, replace your weightloss software, take drugs, shave, and it makes no distinction. Sorry to say some human beings wont ever experience good about it. anybody has likes and dislikes the position sex is in touch, so if thats your companions emotions in route of it, you ought to confer with him, and both come to an awareness, I favor you the superb sweetheart!
2016-10-14 09:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves u he will respect the desicion of u not wanting to have sex jet but if he doesnt listen that means that all he wants from u is sex just leave him u'll get over him there is more guys in this world not just him!
2006-07-11 12:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by ..!♥!..Ms_Perfect..!♥!.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is pressuring u 2 have sex hun he does not love u like u love him. if he did he would wait till u r ready.face facts he is an idiot n u need 2 move on before u end up having sex with someone 4 the wrong reasons.if he is pressuring u now let it be known that once he gets it he will not be around long.men like that love the conquest, not the woman.
2006-07-11 12:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then just tell him u don't think now is the time you are ready for sex.. Don't do it until you are ready! If he cares the way he says he'll wait with you..if not you will have a broken heart but know that there are many more fish in the sea.. swim freely and search for the one whom is willing to understand it is YOUR body and YOU decide when NOT the boys!!! Stand your ground!!
2006-07-11 12:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by mrsmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a part of any healthy relationship. If you do not want sex, the two of you might be at the end.
It's possible that your aversion to sex might be treated medically or with counseling. Try these avenues before you give up entirely.
2006-07-11 12:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by aross07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should wait till your ready. Now if its been atleast 6 months most likely the guy has already been going nuts. With all the making out and touching, a guy can only take the torture for so long.
2006-07-11 12:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to lose him. he obviously just wants you for sex. if he won't listen to you..then what kind of boyfriend is he!!!!?? well obviously a bad one. if he loved you then he would've understood and waited till you're comfortable. dump this dude man...really listen to me im serious about this. dont give it up for some idiot who's gonna end up cheating or dumping you. believe me i dont want you to lose something you CANT GET BACK
2006-07-11 12:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by hello411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not willing to wait then he doesn't love you sweetie. you sound young and I'm happy that you are not giving into him. trust me sweetie, if he leaves because you wont have sex the sex wouldn't have been that good anyways. so tell him no and if he keeps pressuring you, you leave. you will find a guy who is willing to wait and who will be sooooo much better.
2006-07-11 12:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by danielle s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
than he doesn't respect u enough dump him 4 some 1 who will listen if he really loves u than he will wait
2006-07-11 12:11:38 · answer #11 · answered by jrmint92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋