ok here it is.. i really really like this girl.. we went out for 3 months back in November area... ive liked her since we broke up in january and she knows that.. me and her were real close and i was her first b/f and we ended up gettin pretty sexual.. since we broke up we've only kissed like 2 or 3 times cuz she said she only kinda likes me now.. she said there were no other guys involved she just does not like anyone alot
now what can i do to get her to love me the way she did before?
2006-07-11 12:01:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let her know that you love her still and that you will allways be there for her. and she will test you and stuff like that but she will eventually like you the way you like her.
2006-07-11 12:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Chaos_angel0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing I've learned from past relationships is that when a boyfriend had doubts about his love for me, I would leave him alone. Why? Because I didn't always feel good about myself trying to get his attention or trying to get him to love me. It only makes the relationship worse. Only when I gave them room to breathe (sometimes, a lot of room), then they're able to see if they're really attracted to me. If you keep pressuring her and wanting to be with her, it's a turn off. So, ease up on her. Let her make the decision to be with you. At least you'll know she'll be genuine when she wants to be with you. If she's always wishy washy about her feelings then she's not being genuine with you.
When you give her room to breathe, go on with your life. Keep living the life you have, go have fun without her. A woman loves a man who is independent and can have a life of his own. So, go on and live your life to the fullest. Let her see what she's missing.
2006-07-11 19:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her what's she's missing. Just be friends with her or maybe try not talking as much. She might realize how much she misses you.
But you shouldn't push a relationship on her if she only kinda likes you. That will push her farther away from you.
Good luck!
2006-07-11 19:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you, you need to give her a lot of attention, she is playin with you to see if you really do love her, you do, so just play along and please her any way possible, this is what girls do best, play hard to get and keep, they test us to the point of brain explosion! love roccks!
2006-07-11 19:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋