it really means that he is civilized enough to control his dick until you are out of your current relationship, doesn't it?
I don't believe that a guy can be a genuine friend (purely platonic)with a woman of similar age. I think at some point or the other it's gonna cross the line. Don't you agree?
2006-07-11 11:38:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive had a guy as a friend and did absolutely nothing with him he knew i only saw him as a friend and wanted to keep it that way...which made me respect him even more
2006-07-11 11:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't agree. Although that is quite common, it isn't entirely true. I have several guy friends that I would never think twice about dating. It's just too weird. Some I barely even like as friends. There are others, however, that I have come to trust so much that it just happened naturally. It's the trust thing. If they really consider you a great friend and confidant, the only logical next step in her mind, is to date you because she trusts you won't break her heart. Simple as that. Best of luck.
2006-07-11 18:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an answer from a guy, and it is the true. If you have a guy friend it means he is not desperate for you. In other words he is simply contempt on being your friend, you dont turn him on. However , he will have sex with you only if you are blunt about it. Otherwise, he does not find you attractive enough, so yes he can remain simply your friend if you wish it to be.
2006-07-11 18:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I do have several friends my age and a bit younger. Most of them are engaged (attached, married, whatever) and I had never had sex with any of them, nor even crossed the line. Two of them I have had crushes in the past, they both know I had feelings for them (I told them) nothing came out of it and we are still friends (one of them is my boss).
Yes true friendship between man and woman can be achieved, mature men and women that is.
2006-07-11 18:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a male friend and he was not gay.I loved talking with him he gave me good advice about men that helped.I was in a relationship he was not.I drew the line he tried to cross it from time to time.We only went as far as kissing,hand holding.He got a job out of state.It was fun to be with him though.
2006-07-11 18:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mindless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have lots of friends that are guys and only one of them cross the line but i wanted him to cross the line. So i depends on if the girls is giving him signs or not
2006-07-11 18:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by WISH U WAZ HERE WIT ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't agree with you. I have lots of guy friends and I have never crossed that line. ok. maybe once or twice but not all the time
2006-07-11 18:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that a guy can be your friend I have had the same guy friend for 16 years now. It is possible
2006-07-11 19:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy who is just a "friend" with a gal is either gay or hoping one day the girl will give him some.
no man would waste hours talking on the phone or listening to her whining without the hopes of one day getting in her pants.
that may sound mean, but it's the truth.
2006-07-11 18:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by locksmithite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have more guy friends than i do girl friends! sure some of them have asked me out and the relationships havent worked out, and we go back to being friends! i like having guys to talk to, they can give me advice on a crush and maybe help convince him to ask me out! its been done before!
2006-07-11 18:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋