I'm 19, have recently moved into Nottingham, and would really like to meet a guy... But I get really nervous! HELP!!!
2006-07-11 11:11:32 · 15 answers · asked by ...o(_insert witty comment_) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just forget about trying - it never happens when you try!
And wear your grubbiest looking knickers - a dead cert you'll pull then!
2006-07-11 11:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 2⤋
Sorry but your soundin desperate so if you do pull it'll prob be with some minger. When i go out to pull...i never do. It always happens when you least expect it, like you sending out some kind of orra. I'm sure you'll go out more then once in Nottingham so take your time, get to know the place abit more first. The men ain't going nowhere. If you do see a nice guy or a nice group of lads go for it but you may come across desperate which is not what you want. Just be yourself and be friendly. If your that nervous then you shouldn't be on the pull...or just get drunk(always the best option ;-)
2006-07-11 18:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are female therefore have it easy... the poor guys feel they have to do the chat up and they are more nervous then you...
Most guys never chat up the girl they like as most girls just cut them down...
So just be the fun , dancy one...
Ideally find somewhere doing foam parties and wear something thin and white that goes tranparent when wet.
Likewise seek out backpacker bars with debauched party games and join in.
Separate from mates every now and again and appear (I don't biter) or failing that go up to the guy most love it, likewise catch him on the dance floor and keep moving closer... If he puts arms around you move his hands to your butt.
Fairling that...
Cheerleader, nursey, schoolgirl outfit.
Skirt like belt.
Or just go where the guys are ie the skateboard, snowboard park, and join in...Even if crap you could get help from a guy picking you up, therefore handling you and brushing dust off your butt...
Don't get these posts from girls how have it so easy... you have the tools... guys dont... You just have to draw attantion ro boobs and let guys in...
Guys have to have a massive impress you job to do. And you reject them for nothing.
2006-07-11 18:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you walk in to the club think of your self as the sexiest girl in the whole, and walk up to man you want and start talking to him. Any single will talk back and not reject you (trust me). The best to calm down while taking to him, is to act like your talking to best friend it'll totally calm u down.Take the rest from there, trust it'll work.
2006-07-11 19:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by quamig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen just be urself...dont get nervous talk to any guy as if he is just a friend. Ask questions to guy u have never met, such as "hi, im sooo and sooo....u wanna have a drink?" Just ask about what they like to do. Its all about playin it cool and waiting for that right guy to come along, trust me he will.
2006-07-11 18:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Fluv u long time....69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a few scoops, be ur self, be happy don't try and be someone ur not, don't go out on the pull just look forward to having a good night all's well ends well xxx good luck xx
2006-07-11 18:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by busy mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax.
Don't be anything you aren't
Just go with the flow and if you meet a guy you are interested in, go ahead and bang him
2006-07-11 18:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a couple of drinks... not TOO many or you just act stupid... and just smile at one you like....
19... female... on the pull... I make that Sex O Clock!
NO PROBLEMS!!
2006-07-11 18:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be fine just make sure u are 19
2006-07-11 18:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by LESLEY H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Whoever you meet will have to love you for who you are.
2006-07-11 18:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna pull? grab a rope and pull you a woman
2006-07-11 18:15:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋