I like this girl, and am always thinking of her. I can't get her out of my mind. I am a writer, and I always write things about her, poems and such. Sometimes just words, nouns, adjectives, etc. The only problem is, well, she doesn't really know I exist. What should I do??? It is the worst feeling ever... you like them, but they don't even know you exist.
2006-07-11 11:05:51 · 21 answers · asked by mr.santacruz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know her well, she just doesn't know me. It's not like I stalk her, I just notice her every word and whisper, at least when I am near her. I'm too old for leaving notes in her locker or having a friend talk to her (thats high school maybe...) I just don't know how to introduce myself
2006-07-11 11:16:21 · update #1
are you really exists,try your self
2006-07-11 11:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by sigmastar _62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's important not to be too forward; that's a mistake many guys make; think about it: you think about her all the time that you almost feel like you've had a relationship with her; you feel like you've known her for a while, based on your imaginations, daydreaming, etc;
on her side, however, she will be completely taken aback if you confess your undying love, since she doesn't know you; this equals big turn-off and you'll ruin your chances; best to start small; introduce yourself, smile, say hi; but remember: don't come on too strong or be too forward.
2006-07-11 18:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mic Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, one thing in life you will learn quickly...Girls at any age don't like it when you send one of your friends to tell her you like her.
Get up the guts and go say hello...introduce yourself. Talk to her, don't stalk her..like you are doing. get to know the real her.
Who knows you may find out you don't like her the way you think cause you haven't even taken the time out to talk to her, and find out her hobbies, likes, dislikes.....fav animals, color..so on.
good luck
2006-07-11 18:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i know exactly how you feel.
im a girl and to me i think you should tell her how you feel but dont be too foward just casually introduce urself and maybe things can workout good luck
2006-07-11 18:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST INTRODUCE YOURSELF... LEAVE A POEM AT HER HOUSE... LEAVE A NOTE AT HER DESK IN HER LOCKER IN HER MAILBOX.... GET THE ONE THAT BEST DESCRIBES HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER... THEN SEND HER FLOWERS... JUST BE YOU AND YOU CAN NOT GO WRONG... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS...
2006-07-11 18:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are expressing yourself on paper, you should wow her by letting her know who you are and that you exist. She's only human, so you have nothing to lost bro...
2006-07-11 18:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try saying hi to her. Introduce yourself.
2006-07-11 18:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooooo, cute......if only i was still a teenager.....i would've liked 2 know if some1 thought of me like dat back in high school. i agree to be casual about it, but not weird, stocker like, and not strong. jus enough 2 let her know ur thinking of her.
2006-07-11 18:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn dude, you have to get to know her, without her being aware of how you feel or else she will be scared and not want to talk to you
2006-07-11 18:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg im so sorry for you wut you should do is just go up to her and keep talking to her as a guy friend..girls love that..then start flirting with her til you get the kind of feeling she likes you back thats when you ask her out
2006-07-11 18:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her ask her if yall could talk... go somewhere and just talk tell her how you feel dont be shy.... also dont just tell her you think about her all the time though that might creep her out...
2006-07-11 18:08:57 · answer #11 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋