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he has had an issue with her but lost it .they where not marry,but am marrried to him at the regietry.like coming back home late with excuses alway but when i talk atime he is back early

2006-07-11 11:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by Tonye I 1 in Family & Relationships Family

12 answers

kick hiss a$$ to the curb. why let someone run all over you? you're better than that, and you don't need it.

2006-07-11 11:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0 0

It would be over with between him and I. Then you have the choice of either you move out or he does. He cheated on you and with his ex girlfriend. I know that you are mad at him and hurt as well that he could do that to you. Some men are just that way as well as some women. It has nothing to do with how things are at home, I know. My boyfriend was cheating on me and I treated him soooo good at home. He just told me he couldn't help it. I left him, now he is sorry, so he says. But I was very adult about it when I left him. I could have destroyed all his stuff, but I didn't. If I had done that, it would have showed how little and childish that I was. So I just packed my stuff up and moved out while he was out with her one day. He came home to an empty house. But yep, I would leave him.

2006-07-11 11:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0 0

i imagine your procedure action might want to remember on some distinct issues: * How strong of friends are you? in case you're like *brother* friends, i ought to surely lean in the route of telling him. If he ever chanced on out you knew and did not tell, he ought to likely be devastated. also, he's extra likely to trust you and trust that your motives for telling him are on the up and up. * have you ever been very pleasant/chummy with the spouse? if so, he ought to have a complicated time believing that your motives are perfect. * How strong is he in his existence? If he has had themes with instability (alcohol or drug use, melancholy, etc.) it may well be a foul theory to inform him. the information ought to push him in the route of self-deteriorating habit. in case you do nevertheless plan on telling, it must be a strong theory to make efficient he has a ton of help. a pair extra issues to keep in thoughts: be efficient you've your own rock strong information in the previous telling! also, this woman must be giving your chum an STD... his wellness must be on the line. strong success!

2016-11-06 05:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

do you like a whole loaf of bread or will you settle for crumbs. your choice. if you like a whole load of bread finish the relationship and there's going to be times when you will be weak and lonely and will feel like going back to him but give yourself 6 months alone, & i promise you, you will look back & think what did i ever love about him.being with him you can't really put things into prospective. even if you just had a 6 month break from him.keep remebering 1 loaf or crumbs and you will surprise yourself my dear what you come up with, good luck

2006-07-11 11:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by 4leafclover 2 · 0 0

well this is what i would do i would sit down and have a really long talk to him and see what is really going on because he took vows with you and and that means a hole lot i am married myself and i know it is hard you wont be able to trust anymore things won't be the same either but and don't think for one min that this is your falut it not he needs to sit and really think about what he really wants i hope you guys can work through this but keep your head you and pray and god will help you get through whatever you do

2006-07-11 11:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by keontehalexander 1 · 0 0

Tonye, while he's having fun, get all the money out of the bank, credit cards, etc,, call a locksmith, advise your neighbors (for safety), don't pack, but stuff his stuff in plastic bags, and leave them out in the rain.

He does not deserve you.
Let him go.

2006-07-11 11:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by vim 5 · 0 0

If my husband went back and had affair with his x i would be very upset and pack his **** and throw it out of the house and change all the locks .... take the kids and leave. and he would never get to see us again.and he could just keep his x....

2006-07-11 16:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by cm2635 2 · 0 0

no questions, I've heard them before. I absolutely know what it is he wants and what he don't want. No way, he isn't leaving, I'll be the one leaving. It's my turn. my turn to go out and do something that was for me and only me.

2006-07-11 11:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by tara l 1 · 0 0

You have three choices:
1- throw him out
2- you leave
3- live with it
pick only one.

2006-07-11 11:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Caesar 4 · 0 0

You pack his bags and change the locks

2006-07-11 11:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0 0

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