how to act cool and please don't tell me to be myself!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-11 10:53:36 · 30 answers · asked by aaaaghryureui 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Act like an a$$hole
Girls who have low self-esteem (and are more likely to have sex with you) are drawn to men who treat them poorly.
2006-07-11 10:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either cool, or you're not. It involves not trying and not caring. If you have to try to be cool, then by definition, you are not cool. For example, if you see an idiot wearing a polo shirt with the collar sticking up, he is trying to be cool. By definition, he is not cool. If you are worried about being cool, then are just not cool. There isn't anything you can do about it. You'll just have to learn to deal with it.
You could watch "Tombstone" 100 times and try to at like Doc Holiday. Watch "Sex in the City" and try to act like Mr. Big. You'll prolly fool a lot of girls trying that. You won't fool many for long. Most girls are dumb enough to fall for it for a few weeks or months, but the real cool people will know you're just trying to get chicks.
Good luck!
2006-07-11 18:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink seven up! (joking), the secret behind cool behavior is thinking!think before you act!something is happening some were which make you furious...take your time! think!may be if you didn't pay attention to this case!it will solve it self!if you take an action this will complicate the whole thing!sometimes when we r extremely nervous we see little things huge! YES BUT IF WE GIVE OURSELVES A CHANCE TO THINK WE WILL REALIZE..THIS IS NOT THAT BIG....number two : put in your attention that everything in this world will perish..sooner or later there will not be me or you: so what r we fighting for; ashes,nonsense..be cool the one who took your position today, someone will take his position the day after...keep cool....leave it to GOD..he have the ability to solve everything!
2006-07-11 18:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i got the perfect answer right here!!!
I used to have the same problem as you. I would get all nervous and just have this image in my head of wanting to have sex with every girl that i talked to. But then one day my friend told me this.
DON'T PUT THE PU SSY ON A PEDSTAL!!
He explained to me what this meant. In order for you to "be urself" and keep your cool, you need to treat the girl as any old girl, just a friend. Talk to normally. Just ask her question, like what she likes to do. Don't try to mix it up or anything. Also don't do looking for a girl...let them come to you. I mean that doesn't mean dont talk to any girls. But don't walk around with the impression that the next girl that turns around the corner is going to be the one. Just relax.
2006-07-11 18:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Fluv u long time....69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna know how to act cool you just have to walk around like your the hottest thing on the streets but don't over do it. also having a nice car and gear can also help. Also don't take crap from other people when someone step up to you and starts to talk trash do something don't stand there lookin stupid.
2006-07-11 17:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by WISH U WAZ HERE WIT ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To act cool, you first have to a lot of self confidence. Then you have to be sure of your positions and know what principals you want to stand up for. Third, you want to walk your own path. Don't get sucked into drugs, alcohal, smoking or other "follower" things others might do. And finally, don't be a jerk to people. Treat others fair.
2006-07-11 17:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you asked this on the internet proves that you are not cool. Go meet some people, hopefully the opposite sex, and get to know them. Put the keyboard down and go outside.
2006-07-11 18:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jesse J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are going to like you and respect you more, for being yourself than for putting on an "act"...
Cool people are the ones who are self confident...have good self esteem...treat others as they want to be treated...
Be cool...be yourself...
2006-07-11 17:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. It is a lose lose thing. Be yourself and people think your fu**ed up. Be like someone else you don't have your own mind and people hate that. Be an *** and all the people you call friends will really hate you while you are not there. So, be what ever suits your way of thinking and go with it.
2006-07-11 17:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to be cool lol cool people r cool because thats who there r and well if ur not cool then don't hang with a crowd of sluts so u can pretend to be cool
2006-07-11 17:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by soccer_chick4333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be bold and tell people what you think and dont try to do what others do just because they think they are cool. if u like a certain style go with it no matter what others think that makes you cool
2006-07-11 17:56:41 · answer #11 · answered by Tina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋