Must you endure love first to feel pain, or must you endure pain first to feel love?
2006-07-11 10:53:35 · 20 answers · asked by Trixi Curious 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
They are not really related.
I broke a toe when I was six and knew nothing of love (except for my ma and pa) and let me tell you, it hurt like the blazes. But I don't think a broken toe is a prerequisite for romantic love.
On the other hand, the first girl I ever loved, Suzie S., was a peach, and taught me more about love than I could absorb at the time. When it ended, I was sad, but not "in pain." It was time for her to move on, and I sort of understood, in my adolescent fashion.
So no, pain and love are not necessarily related, unless you are married, then it is an unavoidable condition.
2006-07-11 12:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Grendle 6 · 9⤊ 5⤋
Love + Pain + Love + Pain Again = Life
2006-07-11 18:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to endure pain first to feel love. If you enjoy love first then feel pain, it is useless.
2006-07-12 01:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellent question; because love can lead to pain. Yet pain can be felt as the result of love. Which comes first is like the old adage; which can first the egg or the chicken?
2006-07-11 18:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are mixing apples and oranges here. To feel love you must first feel the absence of love. To experience being pain-free, you must first experience pain. Pain is not the opposite of love. Abscence of love is.
2006-07-11 18:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a Pain.
2006-07-11 17:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by EL UNICO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both at the same time, because pain is love.
2006-07-11 17:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True unconditional love exuces pain and goes right back to loving
2006-07-12 08:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well both the ways u feel pain so its up to u
2006-07-11 17:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by god's angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One understands consciously understands pain sooner in life.
2006-07-11 17:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋