this guy came by me(he knows i like him but i dont like him anymore)and my stomach felt wierd . . . i dont think he likes me ppl said he does but then ppl said he dont! he use to grab me by the stomach and poke me in the stomach when i sent him a message sayin i liked him, he dint anymore and he use to give me hugs but not anymore . . . ima be movin in less then a month and every night i cry myself to sleep . . . but i know for shure i dont like him no more . . . b.c he ignores me somedays but then another days he dont i want to get him outa my mind . . . but i wrote 3 poems about him should i give em to him?.
2006-07-11 10:39:17 · 17 answers · asked by hOlLiStEr8hUnNeH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't say how old you are, but I suspect you are still in school. If this is the case, you should not worry. He does like you. He's sad you are leaving and he's trying to put space between you so your going will be less painful for him. Moving is hard. You will make new friends where you are going, but he will be left behind. He isn't being nice because he's not happy about your move is my bet.
2006-07-11 10:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not sweetie. He would let you know if he were interested. You are a big hearted girl and want him to like you. He may have as a friend, but when he was told you liked him, he bailed out and changed his behavior. It's time to move on and meet someone just for you. OR you can ask him to talk to you alone, tell him that you like him and see what he says. Just be aware that face to face rejection hurts just as much as what you have experienced so far. Don't let other people do your talking for you!! You don't know what they are adding in or taking out. Speak for yourself. Get brave and don't let this happen again to you. What ever you do, don't give him the poems, it will look like you are obsessed and will scare him. Good luck sweetie. Hope I helped. Nana
2006-07-11 10:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ignores you, why do you want to hang on? From past experience, you are only going to keep hurting yourself by not letting him go.
Ask yourself this question: is he worth the misery you suffer through right now? If you answer "no," then find the willingness inside yourself to just let him go.
EVERYONE has been heartbroken at sometime or other. But when we are willing to let go of the pain, we will find more happiness inside ourselves.
Good Luck!
2006-07-11 10:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do like him.. you probably have developed some sort of infatuation with him. You could give him the poems or not. you move soon and chances are that once you realize that you do like him and stop being so hurt by whether or not he likes you, you can move on. You can ask him straight forward whether or not he likes you by phone, that way you will have some closure. THATS WHAT EVERY GIRL NEEDS
2006-07-11 10:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Twinkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he doesnt know how to respond to someone liking you.
He pokes you and teases you because he likes you but then he acts like he doesnt sometimes because he probably worried about what others may think.
He sounds pretty immature....
If it will put your mind at ease you should give him the 1 poem.. see how he reacts.
If he doesnt respond to you then I say move and make a fresh start there!!!
2006-07-11 10:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that you are in denial. i think you actually DO like him but you may not necessarily want to like him because of his wishy washy ways of treating you, or else he would not be on your mind the way he is or you would not be writing poems about him. No i do not think you should give the poems to him because there is nothing serious or permanent going on and you are not for sure of how he feels about you. i mean why go ahead and give them to him and set yourself up for more crying and frustration? throw them away and just try your best to get over him. you will be better for it in the long run.
2006-07-11 10:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by queenreignsupreem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never give the poems, guy dont get that kinda stuff.... its mroe of a personal thing....
yea i think you sill care about him, but if he is playin those stupid little games w u, then leave that in the past and look forward to yuor move.... your not even gonna be around him anymore so why waste your heartache?
2006-07-11 10:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the poems for when you are hot and with someone else and he has grown out of the poke-a-girl-in-the-stomach-cuz-you-like-her phase of human development, then make sure he gets them. He will feel miserable at what he let go.
PS -- How do you pronounce your name?
2006-07-11 21:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by bubbacornflakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to just let him go, no it's not going to be easy. But it will make you a stronger person in the long run, and please don't give him the poems that you wrote...that's just going to make him feel like he still has control of you, and he doesn't, does he?
2006-07-11 10:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by sweetblue_cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg wow, that guy is a total jerk. Leave him to be, i used to have problems like that. Exactly like that, i used to like this guy, he used to like me, we'd give each other hugs ALL the time, then suddenly he stopped liking me and i stopped liking him and then he turned into a completely bully and picked on me constantly. If you want my advice, keep your distance. Don't try n start n e thing that you know could break your heart.
2006-07-11 10:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋