I'm a good guy,nice,not violent,funny,yet never get to keep the girl.
Am i too nice because it always seems to me woman love the bad guy and the challenge,should i be an utter utter sh*t head.
2006-07-11 10:26:25 · 22 answers · asked by cheesypeas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a such thing as being too nice, but I don't think that's the issue with your situation. You don't have to start acting like a sh*t head. You have very nice qualities about yourself and shouldn't change them for a woman. The problem is you are finding sh*t head women. You just need to find someone who has the same nice qualities as you do.
2006-07-11 10:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lex J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just dating the wrong girls. I do have to admit that there are girls out there that like the bad boy type but that doesn't last too long when the girls try to change them or when the girl wants to settle down. Eventually some of the girls that dig the a**holes will realize that they really want a nice guy after they have been screwed over. Don't change.... you don't want to be something your not. You'll find someone who will like you for who you are. It just takes a few tries to find the right one.
2006-07-11 17:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by xxfallenstarxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change urself for anyone. If u change the way that u are acting towards women in all actuality u are lying to them because u are not being urself. If the females u have been talking to lately dont appreciate u for who u are change the type of females that u are talking to and approaching. All females dont prefer guys that are sh*t heads.Most want genuine good men.
2006-07-11 17:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not change 4 n e 1 there is some one out there 4 every 1
2006-07-11 17:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a recent movie that covered this.. I think it was called the best friend or something?
The bad boy type makes them feel secure, protected. Women like men who can stick up for them, and take care of them.
Maybe you just need a little "edge" to you? I would'nt want you to be something that you are not either.. But maybe you could show her that you are fully capable of taking care of her?
2006-07-11 17:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be an utter utter sh*t head! you seem like a nice guy. whoever doesnt stick wit you isnt good enough for you.
2006-07-11 17:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by viet_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change who you are. Eventually women grow up and realize the bad guy sucks and leaves them and breaks there heart. Then they decide to give a guy like you a chance and boom! its a real relationship. Its the reverse virgin/**** theory with guys.
2006-07-11 17:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont be a **** head stay as you are. the women youve been with in the past obviously didnt appreciate you for who you really were. just relax and be yourself, in the end your perfect match will come along, good luck x
2006-07-11 17:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by anfield_dream9982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, be yourself...you don´t have to change because of a girl...
Don´t worry that someday will arrive a girl who will love you in the way you are...
the rest of the girls, they don´t know what they´re missing.
2006-07-11 17:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Claudy ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Be yourself. There are women out there who will like you for who you are. Sometimes it just takes time to find the right person.
2006-07-11 17:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋