i need advice, I have been dating the same guy for the past two and a half years....and I have this friend and we were talking about maybe kissing,so i can see what it feels like to kiss someone other than my current bf. I am seventeen, and dont want to leave my boyfriend, because after all I love him...what do I do?
2006-07-11 10:20:37 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...I mean, is it okay to kiss this guy and still be with my bf?
2006-07-11 10:23:29 · update #1
I changed my mind...i hadnt done anything yet, but it wouldnt be worth it...I mean if I thought I was all right with it then Iwouldnt be having second doubts...its so not worth it, and I think Ijust miss my bf right now actually...lol
2006-07-11 10:31:31 · update #2
no you won't go to Hell..
RELAX...
you're just 17 and the life will put you in situations like this quite many times.
TWO ADVICES from me:
1- Whatever you do, DO NOT GET CAUGHT
2- Whatever you decide, NEVER REGRET
(P.S. try a third boy to get a better idea, if necessary)
2006-07-11 10:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not ok to kiss the other guy. Not while you're involved with your boyfriend. How would you feel if he kissed another girl? 2 1/2 years is a long time to be with someone at your age. I assume you'll be heading off to college soon enough and your question makes me think that perhaps you need to get out there and date other people if you're curious about kissing someone else. It's perfectly natural at your age to want to see what's out there and I suggest you do that, but first, part ways kindly with your boyfriend. Good luck!
2006-07-11 10:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing feels the same no matter who you do it with. Even sex doesn't change by who it is only how you feel about them and what you choose to do with them. So you could be with the same person all your life and experience all there is to experience with that one person.
IMHO this male friend of yours is trying to get you to cheat on your current boyfried because either 1) he likes you and wants to destroy your current relationship so he can move in on you or 2) he just wants to see if you'll fall for it at which point he may see if he can get other sexual favors out of you. So no I would not give into him. In fact if you really love your boyfriend you won't have much to do with this other guy anymore.
If you do it anyway it is a simple mistake of youth and be glad it was such a small thing and move on. You won't go to hell bc there is no such thing as hell.
2006-07-11 10:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT KISS HIM!!!!!!!! plus u dont love your current bf cuz if u did u wouldnt even be thinking that way when u love someone u want to spend the rest of your life together and your willing to give up you life just for that person and it doesnt seem like u do since ur thinking of doing a stupid thing like that
2006-07-11 10:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Groovy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you love your bf but are kissing to see what it feels like? Sounds like you need to take a dating break from you bf to see if you really want to be in a relationship.
2006-07-11 10:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady you love your boyfriend so much why would you want to kiss other guy??? Come on lady If your boyfriend find out that you kiss a guy he will dump you just like that. are you willing to take that risk???? for that???? How would you feel when you found out that your boyfriend kiss other girl??? You be so piss! and Dump him too. so I think it better safe than sorry is not to do it smile.
2006-07-11 10:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going to happen if your boyfriend finds out?
What are you going to do if you decide that you like kissing this other boy more than your boyfriend?
What are you going to do if the kissing doesn't stop at kissing?
What are you going to do if you want to stop at kissing, but the other boy doesn't?
How do you think you can avoid all of this?
2006-07-11 10:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it was happened to me too. I talked to the guy who i was kissing with and i end it. Now i'm happy with my old bf
2006-07-11 10:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your relationship needs a break.. its ok to take a week or two by yourselfs to meet new people... talk to it to your guy before kissing an other person becaus if you do it behind his back chances are youll never get him again(meaning youll lose your bf),...
2006-07-11 10:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't plan on leaving your boyfriend, you will gain nothung by kissing another guy. You could lose someone you really love. If you really love him, saying no to your friend shouldn't bother you.
2006-07-11 10:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋