As I go around on my motorcycle looking for work, I see all these beautiful, attractive women. I'm so darn alone & it weighs on me as much as being un-employed. I can't offer anything accept hanging out & some good conversation time. What do I do? "Wanna go out for lunch? You're buying." I just can't do it!
I could really use some female companionship though.
Should I even bother asking a girl out?
2006-07-11 10:12:52 · 13 answers · asked by Firefly Biker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly it is going to be hard....most women want to know that they are with someone who is financially stable...most women like to go out...i would say find a job first and then worry about the women
2006-07-11 10:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i been in your shoes bro. it sucks. heres what you do.
get a job, i dont care if its washing dishes. get full time work.
save a little so you can cover the first date. if you get to a second date with a woman be upfront about your financial problems at some point on the date. if she likes you it wont be a problem. then find inexpensive things to do around town - its the quality of the time, not the money spent. go to a free zoo, or a museum on a free day. or a motorcycle ride. or rent a dvd and order a pizza. you dont have to spend a fortune to have fun.
2006-07-11 10:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by dco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks is a little early to start handing money out. Don't do it she could be playing games with u. Never trust anyone. U need to wait al least a year to give her cash. Buy her flowers ext nothin to expensive until u know her a bit more
2016-03-27 01:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on dates that don't cost anything... Find free tours.. museums, parks, outdoor picnic make sandwiches (or have her bring the soft drinks and you make the sandwiches or vise versa), rollerblading, hiking, zoo, bicycling, etc. There's no rule that says you have to go out to lunch or buy lunch. You can have your dates in the later part of the afternoon...
2006-07-11 10:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may be in the same situation as you, and there are always picnics. What's more most of the competition is at work, count your lucky stars.
2006-07-11 10:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just go on with life? i mean if a girl loves you and you love her does it matter? anyway besides this is the 21st century. women are independent and can carry their man
2006-07-11 10:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by 10 Tween Black_Gurl Tween 10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can, money is not the answer to everything. sometimes it may be love that your looking for. give her a ride on your scooter to the park and talk. unless your starving..
2006-07-11 10:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
money isn't everything is it? ask away you will find that most girls are not interested in whats in your wallet, but on how well you hold a conversation.
2006-07-11 10:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dood! just boro some money from some one, get a date and if they like u that much they wont give a dam.
2006-07-11 10:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Master S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have enough to pay for yourself and if you're brave enough to tell her that you wouldn't be able to pay for her.
2006-07-11 10:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋