QUESTION FOR THE MEN: I asked a similiar one for the ladies-this is for you! How often do you tell the?

Question

woman you are with (if you are lucky enough to have a good woman to love) how much she means to you, how loved she is,
how much she is appreciated, and all that other mushy stuff that
means so much to us to hear. Do you say/do something every
day or just wait for a special day like a birthday, anniversary, or
noticing that another man can put into words what you hesitate to
say. Be honest! And if you can't say yes, then you have some making up to do to your lady!

Answer 1

This is an easy one:

It depends upon the day. From twice (once in the am and once in the pm) to 100 times a day:

Oh, how you make that dress look good, that is the best idea that I have heard this week, you put other women to shame, I can't believe I get to spend this day with you, I adore you, you are precious, no matter how many we have we will never have enough days/nights together.....

The incredible difference it makes is abolutely unbelievable, trust me on that!

Answer 2

Let me put it to you this way.
I'm tired.


Simply because I ALWAYS spend all of my energy showing her how much I love her. I'll send her flowers, just because it's Tuesday. And I don't just send them. I write my own cards. I tell a story through the flowers' meanings. I surprise her with gifts. I write songs and perform them live. When it comes to birthdays, anniversaries, etc., I do them big. I do them with so much thought I get migraines afterward. I lied about the migraines, but I pour so much thought into what I do that I call myself a ridiculous romantic because I think outside the box when it comes to these things. No one can tell me how I feel about my wife. I get cards sometimes, but I feel that she has to hear the words from my soul rather than Hallmark.

Oh yeah. Just for informational purposes. I'm planning to take her to Asia. Not literally, but I'm going to decorate our entire place like Asia. Asian cuisine, jasmine bath, and orchid massage, all by candlelight. I can vision it now. Crucial.

Answer 3

Your question is valid, yet i think of of fairly some it extremely is social conditioning. Makes me ask your self no bear in mind if the ideas you get from females persons will fluctuate by way of way of age communities. I genuinely have decrease than no situations initiated first touch, asked a guy out on a date, or made the 1st telephone call EVER. i'm no longer waiting to particularly envision myself doing so even inspite of the straight forward fact that i'm a extremely outgoing guy or woman. it fairly is basically no longer some element i could journey sensible or comfortable in doing. to boot the shown fact that, I genuinely have actually provided to pay, and issued invites as quickly as i'm seeing somebody. To me, this could be a bear in mind of common courtesy and elementary reliable manners. i've got have been given decrease than no situations seen somebody previous a 2nd date devoid of offering to purchase. If i grow to be interested in a relationship with him, i would not take super ingredient approximately him, and because i'm basically no longer the guy type, if I wasn't involved, i grow to be constantly extremely worry-unfastened approximately it till now he invested plenty time or funds.

Answer 4

The very wording ofthe question suggests that you have been seriously disappointed by the MAN image around you...

I tell you what (and THIS is a serious answer)
A real man with dignity can love a woman only if she feels and shows that SHE is the lucky one to have him... not the other way around...

Answer 5

yes I would if I had someone on a regular basis/ and its called re enforcement everybody needs it, even men!! And if the man is bummed out,stressed out etc/etc,he might just forget at times that's were U come in and start the conversation, and be the right hand hope ya got that!!

Answer 6

I try like hell to do a few things every day. It waned for a bit (in 2+ years together) but she straightened me up. This includes text messages, flowers, IMs, emails, cards, random notes, kisses on the cheeck, rubbing her back...complete cheese but hey, it helps us stay connected.

Answer 7

I let my wife know every day how much she means to me and how much I love her and how special she is to me... and she responds by telling me that if I tell her every day that it starts to lose its meaning... but I still try to tell her and show her every day. I do something EXTRA special on special days

Answer 8

I think it is very important to express your self with the person you really care for. Just don't say it because you know this is what she wants to hear.

Answer 9

I caould ( and do ) tell my fiancee how much i love her. how lucky i am, how i dont deserve her, and how much she means to me every day. But no matter how many times a day i tell her it could never be as much as she deserves.

Answer 10

Honestly I only say it when I really mean it...

and I'll admit my ex probably needed to hear it more often than that... :\