I fianally made a decision that my true love is my ex boyfriend. We dated about a year ago last summer. Things were going good, until he moved out of state. Slowly, but surly we stopped calling each other. By the time school started, a month later, it had ended. We both went our seperate ways. I seem to think that it was kind of my fault because i sometimes would ignore his phone calls while i was talking to my other "friend". It was also my first year in high school and boys were everywhere, so i really had no choice but to date to other people. But now all i can think about is my ex, and the time we shared. The twist to it is, he's my friend's cousin. Yesterday she told me that he's back in VA visiting for the summer. I still have his number, but im just too afraid to call. What should i do???? I really need your comments..........they would really help. Thank-you for your time!!!!!!
2006-07-11 09:53:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT THE SAYING GOES
They say if you love something, you've got to let it go.
And if it comes back, then it means so much more.
2006-07-11 09:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Smilez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you chicken out, you'll have to live it down for the rest of your life. 30 years from now, it'll still be rolling around in your head as the love of your life that you let slip right through your fingers.
Make the call. Even if he says "no", it'll still be worth it in the long run. Besides, he might say "yes". Good luck.
2006-07-11 09:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would only be a summer fling, then it would go the same way it did last year. Find someone in your own state/school to break your heart and treat you like crap, no sense in doing it long-distance, plus it's cheaper!
2006-07-11 09:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't part on terrible terms. Call him up, see what happens. Don't convince yourself what you're going to do either way. Talk a bit, see if the feelings persist. If they don't, you have another friend. If they do, you can consider matters more closely.
2006-07-11 09:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it do you really want him back? Or is it because you can't picture him with other girls? If it is really love then call him girl, he isn't going to call you unless he feels that you do like him.
2006-07-11 10:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by KBG355 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he staying with your friend go over under the fact that you want to see her.Dress nice and impressive, invite him to go with,say somethiing like oh...I'm so sorry I didn't know you'd be here would you like to go with us to the movies or whever else you guys are going.Then make sure at the movies you sit next to him slowly lean towards him and whisper(this gets a guy intrested),do you have a gf?
2006-07-11 09:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you keep thinking about him and that you cant get your mind off of him latley and ask him if wants to go swimming with you at a public pool that way you two can get to know each other better and you can have fun
2006-07-11 09:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u dating someone now? if ur not maybe ur missing bein in a relationship, try dating someone else and if u still miss him well then try ringin him?
2006-07-11 09:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by MissElection 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any chance that you could accidentally run into your ex on purpose if you know what i mean. Ask your friend for help.:) n best of luck:)
2006-07-11 09:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by PRINT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him and tell him how you feel because you never know he might feel the same way.
2006-07-11 09:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Miss~Sweetie~Pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋