Should I just give it up?

Question

Alright, so I went into Braums and there was this guy that was checkin' me out, a lot. I thought he was cute and all. And he was showing some signs that he liked me.

Then it turns out he has a Girlfriend.
What shoudl I do, just give it up?
Or what.
I really need some honest opinions.

Answer 1

let it go... plenty of fish in the sea

Answer 2

When the guy is attached and checkin YOU out then for sure you have to give up. You don't want to be the OTHER girl because if by chance he made the THE girl, in time you will only become ONE of his girls. This guy isn't being very honest and you can do better.
Good luck.

Answer 3

I think you already know your answer.

If he has a girlfriend and you "give it up," you won't feel very good about yourself later.

And if he takes "it," the best you can ever hope for is to be around for a little while until he does the same thing to you that he just did to her. I imagine he checks a lot of girls out.

You won't feel very good about yourself then, either. And I guarantee you, Karma comes back and ye reap just what ye sow.

There are good guys out there, and cute ones, too. Be a good girl to one of them. The best parts of people don't always necessarily show right away.

Answer 4

What do you mean give up. Are you really planning on trying too Whoo a guy that flits with you when he already has a girl friend?

How long do you think it will be before he flirts with another girl at Braums?

Answer 5

The answer, honestly, is yes. Stop trying to find a man.

Go out instead and find something you care about. Business, art, writing, photography; whatever. Be passionate about it, and dont worry about men. Passion is extradorniarily sexy, and a woman who is not out for dating but is out to do something, by default, is extradorniarily sexy.

People who prioritize dating are not interesting, but people who are interesting are highly attractive partners. Note that the right guy, the one without the girlfriend who knows what faithfulness is, is also probably the guy who is attracted to the type of lady who is passionate about something.

Answer 6

Try the "let's be friends" thing and see if you can push her out of your way.

Yeah, can't care about her too much if he's checking that hardcore. Come on your soooo in...... you obviously had a conversation with this dude to find out he has a gf....all you have to do is give a gentle push and she's gone! Go for it girl!

Answer 7

Well, since it just seems like a first site effection, I'd say that you shouldn't worry too much about him and move on. Like they say, there are other guys out there, ones that dont have girlfriends and are hittin on other girls while their other dont know about it.

THink about it, if you were to go out with him, whats stopping him from doing the same thing to another girl while he's with you?

Answer 8

Guys like girls who respond to them. Brush up by him, give him a knowing look, and a wink or some other signal that you are interested. That girl with him may be his sister. Or his girlfriend may be a ***** and he's looking for a way out. Go girl!

Answer 9

Would you want a guy that was checking other girls out while being with you? Sounds like a very possible future if you go after and end up with this guy.

Answer 10

you are willing to share this guy with anothr women, or steal him away from a girl.

Sounds like trouble in the making. Women only want what they can't have, they think because a guy is single nobody wants him.

you must be youndg and immature.

Yea, do it and get what you deserve.

Answer 11

Yes, give it up. Don't go wasting your time on a guy that is already with someone. If he decides he is interested in you then he needs to dump his girl friend before pursuing you.