how do you heal a broken heart?

Question

cause i'm trying to heal wat people have done

Answer 1

I am dealing with the same situation of a broken heart myself right now... And I know right now all that is working for me is keeping myself pre-occupied with other stuff... example: meeting new people, hanging out with new friends, spening time doing what I like. I also try to ignore him and what has happened. Its very hard, believe me I slip up all the time and call him. But if you truly love them you need to do what they ask for. even if they want time and space give it to them or else you will push them away. good luck. i know how it feels. if you wanna chat talk to me!!

Answer 2

Since it seems that is not one person who has done this, you will have to approach it in a way unlike a broken heart from a lover. I would say you first have to determine from what direction the 'broken heart' came from. Was it peers? Work related? Family? If further pain can be avoided by removing yourself from the area of the pain, by all means do it. Maybe you need to sit back and try and gain a lesson and some wisdom from this. Nothing happens in vain, unless you do not grow from it.

Answer 3

Yes it is possible to do it. Love is everything. You never really forget the things that happen to you but you can find a better situation. First of all let go of the past and do things to take your mind off it, like sports or a hobby. Moving is a good idea too. Then make a list of the things you want out of life and find someone who wants the same things. Aim high! This is your life and you deserve to enjoy it. Finding a partner to share your life is what its all about. You will feel happy again. Its only a matter of shaking things up and trying again.

Answer 4

Actually you have indicated that you are trying heal what people have done....that means more than one person has done this to you and it is a rude awakening for you....I have been in a position where I actually could not believe what happened...how could I be so naive to think that folks would do that to me?...it is a regular happening for folks you love to hurt you...obviously they did not feel the same way about you and respect your feelings....move on....just move on...it is all a learning process.........

Answer 5

There is no real "sure-fire" answer to this question, but my advice would be to take time to realize the downfalls of the relationship.. the sooner you realize why it didnt work, the sooner you can prepare yourself for the next venture. Whatever takes your mind to another place, and calms your heart is what you should do unitl you feel better. Until you feel good enough to be able to face your Ex, and keep a solid face..

Answer 6

Time heals all wounds. There's nothing in particular you can do. Just try not to think about those who hurt you and try to move on with someone who's worth taking a chance on.

Answer 7

Time

Answer 8

You meditate, Close your eyes and imagine the people around the world suffering and experiencing what you are experiencing. Do this as oppose to thinking what could have been like if you had done things differently. Otherwise you will be torturing your mind. Sending you many blessings.

Answer 9

I'm in agreement with the time concept. I think a positive attitude about the situation also helps. Don't focus on what went wrong focus on the life lessons and apply it to your next relationship!!!!

Answer 10

The only cure is time.

You can make it easier by keeping busy, don't mope and feel sorry for yourself, spend time with friends and family, be kind to yourself, watch funny movies, do something physical like sports etc.