I have just a few kg more than a TINY girl and i think that i look ok, but some say that i don't because of my killos, should i be worried that i can not find someone who will love me because of me, and not because of how i look?
2006-07-11 09:35:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not true at all. My boyfriend likes me because I am a little bigger. He said he doesn't find really skinny girls attractive and likes my curves better.
There are a lot of men out there that like a women that is built like a woman and not like a boy, have faith and keep your chin up. The right guy is out there. It took me a long time to find my, but I am so glad I waited for the right one!!
2006-07-11 09:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not exactly. I dont care how my girl looks and I know of a lot of men who share my views.
Tiny girls are really cute and a lot of men would agree to that.
Men get turned on when a girl knows how to handle herself.
If you are graceful in your steps, well mannered, polite and impeccable in your beliefs, then you will have men beating a path to your door.
And if you think you are fat, chances are you are NOT. Remember most women are obsessed with their bodies and even the slightest increase rings alarms in their head. RELAX.
And for those who say, you are fat, heres an answer you could build upon... " Atleast I am not scrawny like some people I know "
Dress nice, Pick what you wear with great care and know your P's and Q's and basically be a nice human being and you will have a flock of good friends.
2006-07-11 09:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men do care about body-types, while some dont. To me, personality is much more important than body type. The real beauty of a woman comes from within, not whats on the outside. If a woman can make me smile and laugh, and we can have intelligent conversations together, then she can win my heart.
~~ Beauty of a Woman ~~
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows.
The beauty of a woman
With time, only grows..
Anyway shortie, try not to worry too much about how you look on the outside, because if a man is only gonna like you for your outer appearance, then you dont need his shallow-azz to begin with. You need someone who likes you for who you are, all of you. Peace
2006-07-11 09:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..most guys base girls on thier weight but yell in their face saying all these killos are muscles baby! so don't hate a girl just becasue she's stronger than you...but don't worry..you will find someone you that will love you for you...just wait.tilme will tell
2006-07-11 09:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, if somebody wont date you because of the way you look, they are a little vain and quite mean. Ok so you may not be the tiniest girl in the world - neither am i. If you are happy with the way you look, screw the losers that that think you look bad. Any way who said that all the skinny minnies are the most attractive? Good Luck and dont worry about what other people think
2006-07-11 09:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really does depend on the person you are with. If he loves you, then he should not care what you look like or how much you weigh. He loves you, not your weight. If you have someone who is a mental abuser, they will make you believe you are fat, even though you aren't. It all boils down to self-esteem, and loving yourself. If you love yourself, no one else's opinion matters.
2006-07-11 09:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by jagerchick80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes surely you will find someone who will LOVE you the way you are..so be sure of that.
But that does not mean that you should not watch your weight. Do take care of it, and try to loose some, that will help you lead a helathy and happy life.
2006-07-11 09:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to be loved by someone who cannot see you for who you are? Would you rather want someone who can only love how you look and not what you think ? Shallow men have no idea how to love ANYONE ! not even themselves . Men who care about how you look , honestly dont like something about themselves. ITS TRUE !
2006-07-11 09:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the guy and what they are looking for. I'm sure there is someone out there that will love you for you. The key is that you feel good about you and that the extra weight is not unhealthy.
2006-07-11 09:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Some are in it just for the looks. There's a smaller group of us who look past looks (no pun intended) and see what's more important.
2006-07-11 09:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by Glenn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋