ok this is what happened i meet this guy and we were kinda talking an then one saturday i go over his grndma house and lose my virginity 2 him and then that tuesday aand he tells me that we can't be 2gether cause he got a gurl friend (that i knew buit didn't care bout her cause we were a cople) but he says he do't want 2 hurt her but wht i can't understand is y he waited til he took me virginity adn the borke my heart like that. is iot me or was that ****** up??????????????????????????????????
2006-07-11 09:10:43 · 34 answers · asked by princesspooh1987 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am soo sorry that happened to you girl. That guy is such a jerk and he was being dishonest with you. He does not deserve any of your time or tears. Just be glad you found out the truth and were no longer being misleaded. Just be careful, and move on. Time will heal your pain and one day you will find a great guy.
2006-07-11 09:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You people are nuts!! You willingly got into a situation where you knew the guy had a girlfriend and like you said you didnt care so you pretty much got what you deserved sweety. These other people can try to be sweet and feel sorry for you but you brought this on yourself. Was he wrong? ...yes, but so the hell were you....learn the lesson here and move on. make better conscious decisions about who you lay down with hon.
2006-07-11 09:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he wait until after you two had sex? You said you knew he had a girlfriend... You knew. You didn't care.
He shouldn't have cheated on his girlfriend, and you shouldn't have slept with someone who has a girlfriend(when a guy cheats on you in the future, you can't get upset about it). Think first, then act. Don't act, then think.
2006-07-11 09:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all that was a learning lesson you never mess with a man who has a girl, if he can do that to her he can do that to you. and if you knew he had a girl you put yourself in a situation to get hurt, i am sorry but it is the truth live and learn. i must also add your first time should have been special and i am sorry it wasnt that was not right. But you have to not give it up and watch whom it is with.
2006-07-11 09:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Soldier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, let's see. You're 19 and should know better. That is all guys ever think about. sex. sex. and more sex. married or not. You should of told him if he wanted to mess around with you, to break up with the other girl first. Everyone makes mistakes. Hope you learned from this one. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-11 09:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew he had a g/f but didn't give a shyt, you weren't a couple and just knew each other as friends and you went to his house and gave it up knowing all this. That makes you the dumbazz.
2006-07-11 09:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that ur first was a bad experience. It sounds to me that he wanted to see how far he could use you cuz he obviously isnt gettin the attention from his girlfriend he wants. I dont understand why he doesnt want to hurt his girlfriend. He obviously does cuz he would never have slept with you. Try talkin to him and finding out why he did this to you.
2006-07-11 09:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it mami, i lost my virginity in a staircase of an apartment complex to a dirty older slut. The firs time is barely ever anything special. Wow take it back, now that I think about it THAT WAS GREAT!
2006-07-11 09:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by maneone22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth you were the stupid one for knowing he had a girlfriend and giving it up to him. Guys dont care, they will hit anything just remember that. The only person he hurt was his girlfriend that didnt know anything.
2006-07-11 09:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chose to lose your virginity to that guy knowing he's having another girl,anyway why would you want such a guy?he cheated on his gf with you,he'll do it again but he'll cheat on you this time ... Guys like this ain't worth nothing
2006-07-11 09:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by AB 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋