For females, what causes attraction in females, what causes you to be attracted to men?

Question

From a female opinion what causes to be attrated to a male counterpart...what is it that makes you females sexually attracted to a male

Answer 1

I'm not a female, but trust me dude. I know what I'm talking about. You probably are asking yourself, who does this guy think he is, thinking he can answer my question better than the girls. Well most women don't know exactly what attracts them to a guy. The reason why is because their attraction isn't as intuitive as guy's, and it is purely on a emotional level, not a logical one. And even if they do, they have trouble breaking it down and articulating it, because of this.

Pretty much all women like confident and strong guy's. NO WUSSIES. If you can express this in a humorous way, more power to ya. Who doesn't like someone with a good sense of humor; no brainer, right.

Humor is best down to tease the girl you’re interested in. I know that sound weird. What can I say? Girls are weird. It doesn't need to be down in a malicious way, but a playful way.

Women hate neediness. Hate it! Watch out for that dude. Don't do it.

Women hate feminess (I now that's not a word, but you get it). Seriously. Showing affection in masculine way is a definite plus, but don't over do it.

What I meant earlier about being a wuss is that women are not attracted to guy's that are always nice and relinquish their power to any cute girl, to win them over. What I mean by that is, like being ridiculously flexible when it comes to what you are going to do on a date, buying them **** because you don't think your worthy enough to be on a date with them. Stuff like that.

Break down:

Likes:
- Confidents
- Strenght
- Humor

Dislikes:
- Wussiness
- "Feminess"
- Needines

If you follow this and be yourself your going to need some pepper spray to keep all the hot girls off of you.

I know I explained this in a very simplistic way, but I don't feel like typing all day to tell you how to act. I pionted you in the right direction and now you need to go out in the field and apply it.

Answer 2

Well, I guess every woman has different tastes. Some things that one woman finds attractive in a man repulses someone else. For myself, I can only say what I like. Usually dark hair, tall, (but I have been known to like average height, LOL) olive or at least not white white as in pasty skin, any color eyes but mostly brown. A guy in a v-neck sweater and jeans that wears Pierre Cardin and shoots pool has been known to....well, let's not go there. LOL. They are mostly slender build but not stick thin. I like hands that are masculine looking not wimpy. Strong features in the face, I guess the term is chiseled? A guy that is playful is always a turn-on, but not "silly". And this is a big one...do not be a leech. It is emotionally exhausting. Kindness is a big plus. There are countless other little things that factor in but cannot be expressed here.

Answer 3

Well, for one, I think brains are attractive. Meaning, I like a guy that's very smart and an intellect. He can have all power and muscles in the world but without an intelligent mind? He's wasteless to me. Take Batman for instance. I love him b/c he's super smart and he knows how to treat a woman as well which is another big plus on my list.

Not only brains, but I'm also attracted to funny guys that know when to melt an uncomfortable moment.

Answer 4

It truly depends.

One time I was minding my business at the art gallery, and this man a few inches taller than me (I'm 5'1" and prefer taller men, i.e., 6'0 or above) walked by wearing Paul Lagerfeld's Grey Flannel. He was dressed neat - not expensive, not name brands, just neat. His hair was well groomed as was the rest of him. I walked towards the painting he was spending a lot of time looking at and found myself briefly excited.

Sometimes an appearance is so perfectly put together that you are drawn to them. I have girlfriends that are turned on by men's body parts.

But for me, a tall individual (have dated men with Napoleon Syndrome and they are just too whack - so therefore taller men), neatly groomed - doesn't have to be impeccable, with a "sense of humor" and some intelligence (not 2nd grade reading level), definitely confidence, open-mind with a sense of fair play.

The most important attribute above is having a "sense of humor". I like a man who can make me laugh. When I come home from work and unwind, I like to be with someone who is not all work and wrapped up into money, but rather, someone who knows how to wind down and have fun.

Answer 5

Anyone that's the complete opposite of my husband. My husband is loyal, kind, a great father, provides for the family, etc. and yet my head is always turned to the tatooed, smoking, construction workers! What a creep I am!

Answer 6

properly, even as women are on their classes and maximum fertile, they're extra drawn to extra muscular and manly adult men than something else of the month. they prefer the added alpha sort of guy even as they're fertile. women are maximum drawn to personality. They placed a larger emphasis on that than seems. that is now to not say they don't love extremely boys. yet a common searching guy with personality and "recreation" receives a lot extra than a sort searching guy with a dull personality and no air of secrecy.

Answer 7

depends on what kinda gurl u want! All gurls dont like the same things! Some gurls like personality and other like the "freaky freaky"...ya know? well for me i would like a guy that has a great personality and a lil looks! But looks arent really important! But to most gurls they love the LOOKS!!!

Answer 8

The fact that he can be himself. We can tell if a guy is putting up some kind of front to look cool. The nervousness is cute because you know he's trying hard to impress you. Someone who is too relaxed comes off as cocky to girls.

Answer 9

knowing a man is attracted to you is the biggest turn-on. Then if he makes you laugh, has a sparkle in his eye but displays the ability to hold a conversation that does not involve sport or porn he is half way there. The rest is .............chemistry, pure and simple.

Answer 10

I heard once that when women have sex they emmit a hormone that causes deep feelings of love with thier partner. Now just go around asking a bunch of women to sleep with you and you should get at least one of them to fall for you, or at least you'll have fun trying