ok after dinner last night, me and the guy im dating ended up at his place.....and im sure u can guess what happened next. In the middle of having sex, he said "i love you" and as a responce (i think so it wouldnt get awkward) i said i love you too, but i dont love him. I dont know if he loves me either, maybe he was just saying it?
This morning i got him off before he went to work, and everything was normal. Should i just not worry about it?
2006-07-11 08:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you say things like that when you are caught up in the moment. I can understand him being in love with a girl that is soo pretty,fun,outgoing and such and its like a dream come true to him. Honestly I prob would of done it because you are what i look for. I would not worry about it, Just make sure that no feelings get hurt!!!!! muah
2006-07-12 00:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by fletch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry was there a question???
All I saw was... Sex last night... and "got him off before work".
I'd love you to if I was that well taken care of... lol
But seriously, I'd let it go for now... If you don't love him come up with a better response next time.
I don't have any good responses right now... But here are a few as I swing for the fences...
Thank you.
You're so sweet.
Kiss him...
I care about you too.
I think you're wonderful... etc.
Something fitting... if this does come back to haunt you... I suggest you do some soul searching... figure out how you feel about him, and talk to him about it. If it makes you feel awkward, you can't hide it forever, so you best take it head on.
Good Luck
2006-07-11 16:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u did say everything was normal this morning so i say, nah don't worry about it...And plus you never know...u may ACTUALLY have 'love' feelings for him but they're kinda buried in ur heart waiting to burst...u never know! :) So yeah, i say chill, and just let things flow natural between the two of you! :)
Hope that helped!
2006-07-11 15:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the heat of the moment sometimes things are said act as if it never happen and move on
2006-07-11 15:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by bifgrl31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he says it agin just tell him that you don't think you're quite ready for that step yet and if he loves you he'll say ok well I'm here when you're ready and if he is weird about it then idk...jsut talk tohim about it...don't worry about it like I said tho if he says it again you need to tell him that you're just not there yet
2006-07-11 15:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. I think he really meant it but he didn't know when to say it and it just came out! See if he says it again.
2006-07-11 15:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by plkadtz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he walking on clouds? if he is then he meant it.
how can you bonk a guy you don't care about. I thought that was the female way.
2006-07-11 15:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm for now just let it go but if he says it again ask him if he really means it..and then tell him how u feel
2006-07-11 15:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things take care of themselves. It will all be ok !!!
2006-07-11 15:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by asmikeocsit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it.
act like it never happened.
i bet he hasnt even thought about it.
2006-07-11 15:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by TK #11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋