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i've liked this boy in my form for months now, but i'm really shy when it comes to dealing with stuff like this.
we are TOTAL opposites, but that's what i find most attractive.
he's really quiet and on his own most of the time, but i never actually get to talk to him when he is.
we have 6 lessons a week together, and he even sits next to me for all of them, and he needn't either.
at the beginning of the year, we never talked, mainly because i was new and he's shy, but now it's graduated to lengthy conversations that he starts.
but, he goes on hols on saturday, then we break up for summer break week after, and he's said that if he gets crappy exam results, he won't be returning to college afterwards. so really, i have 3 days, then i might never see him again.
and i like him too much to think that it would be a week long thing.
serious answers only please, i realise it's a lengthy piece.

2006-07-11 08:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

I would first offer to help him study for his exams so that he doesn't receive crappy results. lol. Then tell him you would love to get together even if he doesn't return to school. If it's easier, suggest a specific activity that you could do together. Lunch, movie, etc. Leave him with your number, and then tell him if he decides he wants to do something, give you a call. That way, there's not as much pressure on him right away, and it won't be as embarassing as it would if he had to tell you "no" to your face. But, it sounds like he's interested anyway, since he is always starting up conversations with you. If it's easier, you could suggest it casually like a friend. That way he will respond, and you can go from there in due time. Good Luck! Honest. :)

2006-07-11 08:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by N.E.Pats Fan 4 · 1 0

Do what I did, get a piece of paper with your number on it saying that you like him and if he would like to hang out some time to text or call you then put the letter in his locker or give it to him when you catch him alone.

This will take the stress of you both if it turns out not as hope full as you want it to.

If you ask me it seems as if he likes you too and even if It's not as more than just friends then enough not to hurt your feelings ay :)

Go for It girl and good luck

CJ xx

2006-07-11 08:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 2 · 0 0

You are wasting time here?

Go for it... he is shier then you are or do we have to fluffy hand cuff you two together... actually theres an idea...

(they have a safety catch so you can always say you lost the key).


You mentioned college so no age problems...

Challenge him to a game or strip poker.

Or get him in a cinema and pull his arm around you if he too chicken...


Or challenge him to a wrestle match ie boys better then girls?

the one him pins the other has control.


Its summer... water fight... where something thin and white. then he gets to towel you out of wet clothes ...

2006-07-11 11:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 4 · 0 0

go for it what have you got to lose a bit of time and maybe some self esteem but what will you gain he will only say yes or no just do get it over with find out or spend the next 7-8 weeks wondering and beating yourself up

2006-07-11 08:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by TRUE.CRASH 2 · 0 0

i think its pretty obvious this boy likes you too, so youve got to give him your number and get his too.
you dont have to declare any thing to him either this way, just say that youd like to swap numbers cos youd miss your chats during the hols.
then u know u can still contact him, he can contatct you and as long as u do arrange to meet up during the summer u can see how things go.

2006-07-11 08:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by natasha s 1 · 0 0

Love is a passion showed by Jesus, a holy thing.
You like him for what he does and that is a beautiful thing.
There are much more to him than what you see now or have observed.

Let him know that you like him, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Please, don't expect your imagination to be performed by him, or else you would be disappointed

2006-07-11 08:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bif 1 · 0 0

Three days...hmm. Yeah I don't think I'll ever speak to you again if you don't say something to him.

2006-07-11 08:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0 0

ask him if he'd like to meet up with you for a chat and give him your number.

2006-07-11 08:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by minerva 7 · 0 0

carpe diem

2006-07-11 08:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by queenjoef 2 · 0 0

ask him out

2006-07-11 09:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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