Not me, I can lose my job
2006-07-11 08:20:31 · 25 answers · asked by Judith 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he was hot and it could land me a better job...sure
2006-07-11 08:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by JeNe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!!! It might sound exciting now but it won't be in the long run. Having an affair may be thrillin and fun at that time but in the long run, it really hurt people. Whether it is the wife or husband!!! The spouse can get really disturb with news like that. Do you realize some people get killed over issues like that. I have thought about that myself but I have never once persued it b/c it is not worth it. And who to say that this man will not do the same to you with someone else. It is not worth all the heard ache and pain. If your marriage is dull at home, spice it up!!!Who say that you and your husband can't play around like that at home and really enjoy it. Pretend that yall are having an affair with each other but you are not. Yall are just having some kinky fun with each other. My husband and I do things to spice up our relationship and that is what marriage is all about. You may see something tempting out in public but you don't pursue it...My boss is ugly as he** so I definitely don't want to have an affair with him. I used to work with an attractive man but I have nothing but respect for his wife so I wouldn't dare do such a thing with him. I love my husband and I don't want to hurt him. He does so much on a daily basis to show me he loves me so I don't want to hurt him b/c I truly loves him and no one can treat me like he does. Good Luck on your decision and I hope you make the right choice!!!!
2006-07-11 08:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I would and did and we got married. I had to quit my job because there was a policy enforced that there shall be no dating between subordinates and a supervisor. To protect my husband because he was everyone's boss, I quit my job. We got married two years later. For me we both knew that it was meant to be for us. But I follow the guidelines in knowing for sure I was not going to be a string of women in his past because of his title. When he showed me he was interested in me I made sure that I had sufficient information about who he is, what he is, and why he is before pre-relationship sex. I wanted to know if he was going to call me again; I wanted to know if he was in a serious relationship with someone; if he was stable; if he was sincere; if he really liked me. So acquiring this kind of information took more than a couple of dates. At this point of my life, I wasn't interested in an affair but a relationship with a man.
2006-07-11 08:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ivy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If there are mutual feelings get a new job. Cause if the relationship goes sour, your a$$ is out anyway!! Plus it's not good to be in each other's pockets all day and night.
2006-07-11 08:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was attached to someone.. NO WAY! If a person has morals.. they will not. Especially if the boss is married. That is just wrong. Dr. Phil said something that just sticks in my head.. " If they do it with you, they will do it to ya." (meaning cheating) But, if you're single and he's single.. have fun.
2006-07-11 08:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends, if she is interested on me (I m Male) I will definitely have her in bed. I will approach her with skill and talents that i have on me. There is a day when a women show her weakness, that time i will get into her
2006-07-11 08:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was hot, and I could get a better position in the company I would
2006-07-11 08:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Funny Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not a good idea. everything seems cool till u have sex with someon that has power over you. could turn out pretty creepy in the end.
2006-07-11 08:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not. it is not professional. u don't pick up married man where u work . u would lose ur self-esteem and u won't have any respect from ur fellow employees
2006-07-11 08:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. yall will end up being enemies. he's just curious about your body right now. you want fell comfortable around him anymore. I know been there already.
2006-07-11 08:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by cilstubbs2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! besides my boss is very old and very ugly!
2006-07-11 08:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋