torn n between the two?

Question

Okay here goes..... Me and ma ex were together for three months...two of that months he was n jail for assult but he didint hit me it was his ex gurlfriend.....Anyway he had to do sixty days....Now he's out and I have only seen him one time and it's been two weeks since his release.... He's live's six blocks away frm me and he has a car but he never comes visit me.... Now im gettin the hint that he doesn't wanna be wit me so i moved on cuz i saw him n da car wit another female.....So now im n a relationship wit someone who makes me feel so good...... Dis is ma first relationship wit a woman..... Now ma boyfriend wants me back...But now im n love with both he and she......Im hella torn n between da two HELP

Answer 1

You're not in love with either of them! Real love doesn't come and go, nor does it just pop up overnight! You need a break from both of them, and time to straighten out your life and mind. What do you really want out of a relationship? What do you really want out of your life? When you can seriously answer these questions, you'll be able to choose one of them, or neither of them. They aren't the only two people on planet Earth!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

you aint torn between two, if you are you are crazy,, not saying you cant fall in love in a month, but you had 2 months to shake it off, and plus he was in jail for assault for 60 days,, that wasnt his first time going. Now that on you, i really think you have a very high sex drive and with that you want your cake and eat it to. cause if you were in love with him as you say, you wouldnt have let another person into your heart,, better yet alone a woman... you do what you do, just remember abuse comes from assumption and jealousy, keep that in mind,, while you getting your **** on!!!

Answer 4

Well first you need to decide if you want to be with a woman or a man. Next, you do not need a loser that has been in jail especially after hitting a woman. No matter what that woman did to him, still did not give him the right to hit her. If he it's a woman, chances are, he will eventually be abusive to you.

Answer 5

Gurl if a women is what make u happy then do the dam thang. Theres 2 many fish in da sea 2 B honden on me ! U know what I'm sayin? And I ant mad at u. Do what u got 2 do 2 do what u got 2 do u HEARD ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

It sounds like you could have been the victim of abuse also. Many female victims go towards women as mates. Victims also want to be with the abuser.....who knows why....pyschologically, we are all messed up a little. Basically, you need a professional counselor to help you with this problem.

Answer 7

Stop listening 2 Latoya Luckett and follow your own Mind


Now take 2 ov deez and call me in the mornin'

Answer 8

keep them both and have a threesome, then when he bets the hell out you like he did his ex- and goes back to jail and you go too for licking his ***, you know how to handle all the horny women you will meat in the can, that way everyone learns a good leason.

Answer 9

Girl,he seems like a dog who's on a prowl...and i honestly think he found u sexier now that ure with a chick..and thats SICK! Stay with her if she makes u happy...what matters is ur happiness...and remember,Love matters but more than love,u gotta remember these 2 words: SELF DIGNITY...dont ever settle for anythin less that u deserve...aight? G'luck!!

Answer 10

Wow. Well, its good to feel good about yourself. That feeling of happiness from another person feels good. But, you have to think about what you really want right now. Do you want to go back to that? or do you want to stick with what you have?... Just compare things between u and her and u and him and see which one seems better.