my ex boyfriend be calling asking me to buy him things and he has a girlfriend and I m not trying to go back with him. I don't love him anymore I told him he just don't get it. He still be calling me none stop?
2006-07-11 07:50:48 · 29 answers · asked by brit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have your phone number changed. And if that were me in that situation, I'd be calling up his girlfriend to let her know that he's blowing up your phone calling. I think he finally realized who he would rather be with but don't get back with that jerk!
2006-07-11 07:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't love him anymore?
I think your love was only an illusion; if it were real, it would be as fervent even if he tried to kill you as it would be if he were your ideal man; further, it would be as eternal as you are anyway. Tell him this and read him poetry until he stops calling (he will), and don't tell anyone you love them until you are ready to die for them, and the reason that you even live is for them, and you've made a decision - NOT fell for someone - to love them no matter what forever. Love is not cushy; it is not pink and fluffy. Love sucks, but is profound and such love is worth everything; if you are a mother, you will not (hopefully) stop loving your child no matter what right? Even if they are screwed up and evil? Well, love your significant other this way, and have enough respect for him not to tell him you love him if the day may ever EVER come when you no longer will give him your full support, for any reason imaginable. Anything else is petty and transitory thus not worth such a serious word.
2006-07-11 14:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by ergonomia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't respond, Let him keep calling!! He'll eventually get tired of calling if you don't answer. If he shows up at your door or work, etc... Just ignore him. If your not trying to get back together, just avoid him at all costs.
2006-07-11 14:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jaqueline B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone when he calls he should get tired or when he calls you and ask you for clothes don't take him anything tell him to buy his clothes.
2006-07-11 14:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by SunFlower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take some grammar classes or buy a dictionary.
Second, he is playing you for a fool. He wants you for sex or things you buy him. Tell him to go f*ck himself and leave you alone unless you want to be used.
2006-07-11 14:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohny8x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to change ur phone number. i guess he kind of missed being with u because it seems like u used to give him anything. tell him it's over and it is not ur place to buy him things anymore.
2006-07-11 14:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him flat out to stop calling and if he doesn't, charge him with harrasment or get a restraining order.
2006-07-11 14:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a number 1 jerk. Wants you around for your money only. Not you. Don't answer his calls. He is a big USER. Don't let him do that to you.
2006-07-11 14:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone #. Get a restraining order from the police. He is harrassing you and could be a stalker.
2006-07-11 14:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont love him and no 2 call u so much..and if u dont want 2 even be his friend tell him 2 leave u alone.....jsut confont him..he might not know its bugging u ...but then again he might be tryin 2 get bac with u
2006-07-11 14:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by gothbabe14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋