In the time and age we live today, premarital sex, a.k.a. fornication, seems to have become a normal part of a dating relationship and it has even become widely accepted by society. However, from your own point of view and experience, can teens and young adults save themselves painful and grave consequences by simply avoiding a promiscuous lifestyle?
2006-07-11 07:50:03 · 6 answers · asked by priscie808 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well my views is that sex does hurt a relationship in many ways, one being that when you do find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with you want to be able to give them something that you haven't given any other person and if you have already had sex then you can't give that special someone anything. Another reason is because once you have sex then it becomes so much easier to have sex the next time and next thing you know you are having sex for all the wrong reasons. Sex should be with someone you love and who you are serious about, it shouldn't be about just pleasure or needs and when you have sex without loving the person it starts to be become that way.
2006-07-11 07:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-marital sex does not indicate promiscuity. You can avoid STD's by not having sex. You can't avoid relationship pain or heartbreak by not having sex. Sometimes it's the grave consequences of our actions that move us to a place we need to be. By not having sex, you run the risk of avoiding yourself and not growing. You possibly miss out on necessary intimacy with yourself and the person you are in a relationship with. As a result, you don't know who you are when you get married. That could make it challenging. On the other hand, there are fabulous reasons to wait until you are married.
In general, I think that teens should not have sex. But, they do and it's their business. Sex is a personal choice. Make your choice, based on what you want in your life.
You don't need to make proclamations of what everyone should do; based on your choices. You also don't need to look for reasons (i.e. excuses) to justify what you want or don't want in your life. There is no best path.
2006-07-11 15:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my own experience yes, i've lived a promiscuous life, probably not as bad as some but it bothers me
2006-07-11 14:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They actually can.Sex before marriage is wrong and pipo will always feel the consequences in marriage or even before
2006-07-11 14:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can if you don't use your head. You should not be promiscious purely out of self respect not because of any societal connections
2006-07-11 14:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can be benificial or painful depending on ur reason no matter when u have it.
2006-07-11 14:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by male85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋