2006-07-11 07:38:24 · 49 answers · asked by christinegranthamterri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow i'm 13 and i don't
2006-07-11 07:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you want to lose your virginity at the age of 14. Are you doing it to show your friends it is something cool or are you under a lot of pressure from friends who have already had sex? For what ever the reason, please what until you at least graduate from high school. There is no rush to hurry up and lose your virginity.Enjoy being young, do you not understand the consequences that follow behind sex? STD's, AIDS, or even pregnancy. Use your head on this one, do you really want all that stress to wonder if maybe you have an STD or even pregnant? Please wait until you are older, you will feel much better about yourself in the long run.
2006-07-11 07:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is way to YOUNG!!!!! Ok look your 14. What if you get AIDS or any other STD? Or get someone pregnant(if your a guy)/or get pregnant(if your a girl)!!!!! What the hell is going to happen after that?? I mean its your life and you can do what ever the hell you want but 14 is a hell of alot to young sweety, its not worth it at 14. It won't mean anything. It would just be sex. And I mean it should mean something other than the fact that you could get an STD! Just dont have sex yet.Oh and learn to spell.
2006-07-11 07:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by oogaooga12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bigger question is are you in school and can you spell?? Next one is are you ready to be a 14 yr old mom?? Or have STDS and AIDS at 14 then if not i think you should be one of the smart ones and wait aome men like women who haven't been sexually active since that age some think it is nice to meet someone who respects herself enough to wait for the right person and time . You are too young don't be stupid OK! WAIT WAIT WAIT!!!!! I was 19 when i lost mine and so glad i waited my hubby thinks it was sexy and i was proud of myself for it and respected myself more.
2006-07-11 07:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by life as we know it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Is it heavy or something?
Take your time growing up; once you are an adult, you're an adult for a long, long time. If you cram all of life's experiences into the first fifteen years of your life, what do you plan to do after that?
You're not ready for the consequences of having sex. Go and learn something else and set some good goals for yourself.
2006-07-11 07:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 14 years old and you want to lose your virginity--what is the rush most people want to wait until they find someone to share that special moment with that they care about---you have plently of time you might regret it later think very carefully because you only get one chance
2006-07-11 07:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by wendy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look I did not want to be told i was too young when i was your age....I did not want to listen to anything but you know what I am so glad that I did....once you lose that you can not get it back...It is very special and you should spend it with someone you love that you want to spend the rest of your life with and make sure they feel the same way...But i think it would be best to wait.
Best wishes to you and just be careful
2006-07-11 07:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you "Won't" lose it ? Sounds to me like your a confused child that is being pressured. Set your standards high and learn to educated yourself. Read the (Chicken Soup Books for teens).
2006-07-11 07:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are old enough to deal with the potential consequences. wait until you find someone you would be willing to marry, not out of need (because of a baby) but out of love. please wait, it will make it even better for you when you are finally truly ready. you don't want to have any regrets about the time you lose your virginity, because you can't get it back.
O.o
2006-07-11 08:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by bubblebooberz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do it, you have plenty of time for that, focus on your studies, talk and play with your girlfriends, go skating, or to the movies, enjoy being a kid, too many STD's out there, it's a risk of getting pregnant, where is your mom, talk to her first please. If you just can't talk to her talk to me before you do something you regret and you will regret it at this age.
2006-07-11 07:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to stop it.....SEX shouldn't even be on your mind right now. Hey, I'm 19 and still a virgin and proud of it......Listen, it doesn't matter what your friends are doing, or what the guy wants......he can want but NOT have....You should be focusing on your future right now and enjoying your childhood......sex and all that will come sweetie.....TAKE CARE! :-)
2006-07-11 07:42:58 · answer #11 · answered by Ms.Songbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋