Im 25 years old and Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 years and I discovered that my boyfriend has a profile on adult friend finder and he is seeking men. So I think he is bisexual what should I think of him? I confronted him and he denied it after showing him the profile.
2006-07-11 07:30:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is gay
2006-07-11 07:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate I caught My husband on there after he was trying to get me to go there.. I agreed mind you we have ben married for over 10 years so I thought why not .. I started looking around on the single men section and there was my husband had ben a member for a couple of months before this we had a HUGE argument not a fight mind you we were (rather I was Yelling ) at him for Lying to me about Not doing this with me first...anyway my point is Maybe just Maybe he was trying to find a Pearson for Y'all to experience this together with it is harder to find a couple to break the ice but a single Pearson is easier to start the 3 some with and maybe he thought you would feel more conferable with another guy and if that's Not it then maybe you should rethink your relationship with look back on things and see if anything just leads him to the other side of the track ..
2006-07-11 14:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. After 6 years this should not be a secret. Are you sure he put the profile there? What would the consequenses be for you if he is bisexual? Would you think it OK, or would you not handle it?
You must talk to him and urge him to talk to you about this if it is important to you. Living a lie will be devastating for both of you.
2006-07-11 14:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No telling what other denials he is dealing with. His being involved with those locations proves You are not taking enough care of His needs. Time to move on and let him know a choice has to be made. If He is not man enough to admit there are two sides to his sex drive then break it off. If he admits it then just decide if You can handle it and go with what you decide.
2006-07-11 14:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his friends set it up as a joke? I mean..how did he actually *act* when you showed him? I'm sure you would be able to tell if he is lying or not. Why not make up your own persona on this site as a male and see if he takes the bait?? Shoot...sounds pretty kinky to me..hehe I mean, worse case scenario..you get to fulfill every girls dream of two men at once...lmao....j/k of course (if you're not into that...)
2006-07-11 14:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not in the place to tell u to leave him, but i were u i would because him being bisexual can make u ill. he could transfer any kind of s t d's to u. so for ur own safety think about it.
2006-07-11 14:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would worry me. Wondering whatelse he could be lieing about. Can you say for sure it is him on adult finder site???? If how do you feel deep down about it???? Can you deal with this???? You have to go by your own feelings.
2006-07-11 14:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooooooooh it may be hard... relly hard to break up with him but that might be ur only choice even after 6 years. he culd've got sexually bord with women over the time and looking for a man. which he wuld probably dump u for. im sorry but its true
2006-07-11 14:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by irish skater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously he's gay or bi. Then looking for people to "hook-up" with on the internet is risky to his & YOUR health. Next he LIED even after you showed him proof. So he's a lying, closet gay guy. What's the question? DUMP HIM & RUN to your Dr. for aids & other std tests!
2006-07-11 14:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by awnery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really see yourself with this guy? if not then leave him. i know it is aharder said than done, but if you dont now then you will be the one that is hurt in the end. if you break it off and you guys were meant to be than it will happen. by the way what are you doing looking through his business and in the personals?
2006-07-11 14:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by daniel e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he deny it? Does he say you put the profile up or what?
2006-07-11 14:32:26 · answer #11 · answered by girl36c_4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋