My sweetie has been acting really strange lately . I think he's addicted to sex because he's always talking about us doing it. I tired of always having sex with him, I keep on telling him that I want to do something else like go out to the movies or going out to dinner.
2006-07-11 07:28:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I still love him but it seems like he doesn't want to take me out any more and spoil me .
2006-07-11 07:31:22 · update #1
Whenever I refuse to have sex with him he gets mad at me and stays begging.
2006-07-11 07:34:12 · update #2
I think that if he is not hearing what you are saying and you have tried your best to talk to him about the issue and he just isn't listening then go about your business. Go out with your friends, make other plans go have fun on your own because frankly he is not making your happy so you need to go out and have fun on your own if he doesn't like being by himself then maybe he will join you and if he does not well than there is your answer...you don't really need him anyways and you will find that special someone who will be there for you in the ways you need.
2006-07-11 07:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but shouldn't you just plain out ask your bf if that is all he wants from you? Sex is an important part of a relationship but not the ONLY part.
Explain that although you enjoy it you need to do other things as a couple.
My bf and I go out a lot, or sometimes he comes over for dinner, we go to the movies, etc.
2006-07-11 14:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
he must like sex, right? That explains why he wants it so much, so often.
I can understand your point though. Of course if you're halfway out the door on your way to the movie or to the restaurant, he's going to follow and you'll manage to include what you want to do in your life as well as what he wants to do. Be prepared with an idea of where you want to go, when it starts, what it costs, and then when you get there?
Whisper something to him about what's going to happen when you get home--he may really like that tease when you're out in public.
2006-07-11 14:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont have the same feeling, its strange that he does wanna having sex with you all the time.
im sure u make him horny with the way of ur look.
walking,
sometimes if u get more serious ,he will start asking u something else, goin out....
if ur acting serious and still he wants it, he is addicted and he needs help, cause too much of sex is also a problem in a relationship later.
2006-07-11 14:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by ___ãÃâãhà 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had an ex. boyfriend act like this and one day he finally confessed that having sex made him feel really close to me, and that this is how some guys show their emotions. maybe ur guy is the same way. oh and a easy way to tell him u dont want to have sex is to fake cry and ask for a back rub and if he ask why just say it hurts sooo bad. this always worked for me lol
2006-07-11 14:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by diana m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just got a little addicted to what you have. It's sort of like a drug, once you start it takes a while to stop. I that you give it up to much and now he think that every time he ask you are going to say yes. My ex-boyfriend did that and when I told him no one time he told me I was tripping and he think I was just playing when I broke up with. That was before school got out and he still think I'm just playing. He still calling and I'm still hanging up in his face.
2006-07-11 14:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by JBaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is not being accomplished. Hopefully both of you are reaching the peaks and draining the systems. Wanting too much may be a health problem with him either too much testosterone or some other problem. Talk it over with your family doctor.
2006-07-11 14:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with him. Maybe all he wants is sex. no but seriously Male hormones are very high it's natural but maybe you should tell him howe you feel. But if you cant learn to love him you should leave him.
2006-07-11 14:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, all you had to do was tell me, you didn't have to post it in front of the whole world. I'm sorry honey.
That was really bad of me, just having fun. Do what my girl does to me, cut him off. I know, I'm a trader, but why should I be the only one suffering.
2006-07-11 14:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by elguzano1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to start looking for someone with a lower sex drive. Because his want for azz isn't going to die down...
2006-07-11 14:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋