My gf is so awesome, but she gets mad because I look at other girls. Is that normal? I'm afraid if i don't find a way to stop she will break up w/ me. Tell me how to stop please.
2006-07-11 07:18:58 · 31 answers · asked by Austin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because og this our sex life isn't that good either. how do i make it better
2006-07-11 07:25:06 · update #1
If she is getting mad because you are looking at other girls, the first thing that comes to mind is she is insecure.
My husband looks at other women and I look at other men. You admire beautiful works of art don't you? It doesn't bother either of us because we are secure in our relationship. I know he loves me and he knows I love him.
Looking doesn't constitute cheating. There are millions of beautiful/handsome people on the face of this earth. Just try not to stare and don't ever let your head fall off while whipping it around to look at the beautiful woman you just passed on the street. LMFAO
2006-07-11 07:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to look. But how are you looking? Are you glancing or do you stare at these other girls? If you stare, then she has a legitimate reason to be mad. Otherwise she sounds like she is just overly jealous. I know my boyfriend is going to look at other women, there are a lot of beautiful women out there and he's not blind! Sometimes I'll even point one out to him. If I see a hot guy, your darn sure I'll look. The important point thing is that it is just looking... no flirting, no talking, no hooking up. Your girlfriend should feel good to know that even with all those other good looking girls out there, you only want to be with her. Try telling her that. If she still doesn't understand and continues to be mad, from now on just make sure when you look you are less obvious about it.
2006-07-11 07:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all...think it this way: would you like your gf to look at other boys? When a girl observes that her bf keeps looking at other girls, and sees a small wish in his eyes, she starts questioning herself, if she's pretty enough, if her bf likes her anymore. You should talk to her about this problem without getting mad. You need to make her sure that you wouldn't give her up for any other girl. Good lock
2006-07-11 07:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Eliza P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this girl you need to learn to respect her. she has every right to be mad when you look at other girls. it is an insecurity that you are causing, making her feel that she is less than the girls you are looking at. the question is not how do you stop, it is why do you do it at all? one of two things needs to happen, either you need to realize that she is beautiful and all you need to be happy, or let her go...you look at others or even get someone else, but let her find someone that will appreciate her.
2006-07-11 07:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by crzinluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a diversion, something like i would love to see that girls heels on you (the girlfriend). The sad part of this is, you a guy and as long as you have testosterone you will look at other women. The sooner she realizes that you are looking at another girl but coming to her for comport she should back off. Or she looking for excuses to cause problems in the relationship, there for you have no chance in changing the course of your relationship and it's doomed.
2006-07-11 07:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by LadyRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for guys to look at other girls, but if she doesn't like it, then you better stop doing it at least when you are with her. It's kind of rude to do that, it makes her feel like you don't think she's as attractive as other girls or you are looking for someone else. You can stop by just not doing it. It's not that hard, man.
2006-07-11 07:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by 1big teddy graham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well uh don't loOK at them in front of her!!! it is very disrespectful for u to do that its ok if u do it when shes not around as long as u don't try to hook up with them but don't be so stupid that you break your neck when a hot chick walks by in you gf's company!!!...if a hot babe is coming your way and u know u cant help your self then look in to your gf"s eyes and don't look away until u know the other girl is gone ...your can tell her how beautiful she is and you just cant help but look into her eyes ...see you will avoid looking at the other girl plus u will gain points for doing so..especially when she notices a hot girl walked by and u didn't even seem to notice because you were too busy looking at her!!!
2006-07-11 07:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when my husband looks over to his right and there happens to be a girl there, i get mad. Im that way because so much sex is out there now. Shes not gonna change. Let it be. She luvs ya, put up wth it. Its not that big of a deal, is it??
2006-07-11 07:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to stop looking, you need to make her feel more secure.
Are you looking at girls like you're window-shopping, or are you drooling over the other girls? If you are, I can see her point!
Why not make it "people" watching, instead of "girl" watching, and include her in your observations of life on the street?
2006-07-11 07:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very normal, but there is a way to stop, just think of how u'd feel if she looked at other guys, or think what it feels like when u see some guy staring at her, she'll have to learn to get over it cause most guys DO stare at other women. good luck
2006-07-11 07:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by diana m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋