it is this guy he loves me and the problem is that he is my friend i don't wanna lose him or hurt him he didin't say he loves me yet.. what shall i do?
2006-07-11 07:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what you feel. Don't just keep going on about what you're doing because you might be giving him the wrong reaction.
2006-07-11 07:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly your friend then you should be able to talk to him a nd tell him either you are not attracted to him that way or that you want to remain friends and anything beyond that is not going to happen.
More than likely he will accept those terms if he is a true friend. However, if he is using his friendship to get you in the sack then he'll move on until he finds a gal that will.
Either way this is a turning point in your friendship and you will be closer to him or move on and find others. Who knows? Maybe through time you'll develop romantic feelings for him as your friendship evolves.
2006-07-11 14:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kamikazeâ?ºKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how flattered you are that he thinks of you this way and that you appreciate him a lot. Then tell him that your feelings are on a different level and that you love having him be your close friend, but deeper relationship just isn't in the picture.
2006-07-11 14:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting him know what you are willing to put up with might jog his brain. If he wants to be your Friend then OK if other plans are floating around in his head let him know it will cost him the friendship. Period.
2006-07-11 14:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that you only want to be friends and you love your friendship as it is.if he really loves you then he'll understand.
2006-07-11 14:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by enjoylife! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out w/ some one else b 4 he asks u?
2006-07-11 14:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by luvmylpniko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat him as just a friend, no special attention, he'll get the idea, good luck!!!
2006-07-11 14:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok go to a resturant with him and tell him that you are friends not lovers
2006-07-11 14:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by master and the chief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk and tellhim how you feel
2006-07-11 14:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by mudslinger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋