Different RACES going out? SEX or NO SEX!!?

Question

for those ppl who HAVEN'T read my post b4....
well, i'm south asian,(filipino, thai, cambodian, and singaporian). Right now i'm going out w/ this black guy.

we been going out 4 like 2 months now, he thinks we should move up a level in our relationship and start having sex and stuff. i'm only 14, and he's 17, u might think we are too young. but where i live, we got gurlz that are pregnant when they're only10. so it's not abnormal for a 14 year old to have sex. AND I REallY LIKE HIm! but the problem is my mom doesn't kno we are going out. SHE IS RACIST and thinks going out w/ black guyz would get me raped and pregnant. SHE WOULD NEVER approve of our relationship. so far she doesn't kno we are going out. But if i hav sex w/ my man and i get pregnant, SHE'S GONN KNO!!! and she would kick me out for going out w/ a black guy and getting pregnant! But i really like my man, and i dunno wat to do. have sex or not have sex? HELP!!!!

Answer 1

YOU should wait what if u were to get pregnant do u really want 2 be a mom u would have 2 give up all u want 2 happen in your life
u would lose self respect and well i bet if u do have sex he will be
gone in no time. he will get what he wants and leave u need 2 really think about it. a short time of pleasure can ruin your life

o ya and if u stay a virgin one day u will find ama who will truly love u 4 u and respect that and if u have sex now well when u get married too the man u truly love he will no.

iwas a virgine untill i got married and my husband told me after we were married that he really respected the fact i was a virgin

o and no protection is 100% except no sex

Answer 2

Stop being a slut, you are too young to even have a boyfriend, even to think about sex. When he does get it, you will be labled as a s lut the rest of your years in school. And it is abnormal for 14 yo to have sex.
P.S just because you date a black guy dosnt give you the right to act black.

Answer 3

I think you are very young and should wait but if you just cannot well than make sure that you are protected talk to each other about the consequences that this action may bring, and make sure you really love each other. If this is your first time don't let it be a mistake, carefully think it over...and that goes for the both of you. I think that if you are already thinking that it is a bad decision then maybe it is.

Answer 4

Why not get birth control and have all the sex you want. It is not just your mom to be worried about if you have unprotected sex. Different cultures set standards for interracial relationships. Two people must decide for themselves what to do. In some cultures children of mixed race are rejected by both groups. Think of the children and see how mixed race children are treated in your area. It is not fair to subject children to pressure from different races because you followed your heart.

Answer 5

if you're in the us, most states will still consider that rape.
you're too young too, and just because other girls are stupid doesnt mean you should be too. put the whole race thing aside, he's 17. you're a child.

Answer 6

Regardless of all what u've already mentioned I still see your too young to have sex

Answer 7

I would say stay a virgin. If your man can't handle that and respect you for your decision then he's not worth your time.

Answer 8

don't how will you support your kid are you shure he loves you you are young weather you wanna belive it or not just cause you were raised around that doesn't mean that you cant do better

Answer 9

damn, hes a lucky man, i bet you are hot as hell, the things i would like to do to you!!!! i wish i was that lucky

Answer 10

if safe sex with condom then ok.