Could you help me with my problem.?

Question

I am only 16 and my last two girlfriends were seniors and when they graduated, they went off to college and didn't feel like it was important to try to continue our relationship. It's not that I only date seniors or anything but we both times I thought they were my soul mate, and I understand that they are changing to a new life and all. I want to meet the right girl that will stay with me, should I avoid dating another senior? Should I look for someone on-line that is my age?

Answer 1

Dont look for someone online, find someone you know and talk to them online. that way you know who you are really talking to and you get to know them better. Try sticking to someone your own age, and it will work better. Once your out of school, then go ahead and find someone older, it won't make much of a difference then as it will now.

Answer 2

Hun I've been in a similar boat, except I'm 17 and a senior now and my last two bf's went in the military. We're too young to worry about a relationship that's gonna last forever, because in reality most high school relationships don't last. Just relax, enjoy the rest of high school, and wait until college to find a girl who is going to treat you right. I plan on waiting to find a man until then. Of course, if one happens to come along, be friends with them first and see if you're even compatible... take things slow, don't rush into a relationship. Good luck, and email me if you have any more questions (I grew up around guys, and some of my closest friends are guys, so I pretty much get how guys feel about a lot of things)

Answer 3

Don't look for someone online.. look for someone you in school. It doesn't matter wether they are a senior or a sophmore.. High School is a time to interact with people around your age with similar interests.

If you meet your true soul mate then them leaving for college won't keep you apart for long.. they may even think of taking a year or two at the local cc before moving onto a four year.

Answer 4

If you can avoid going online to meet people, please do so. I have tried online dating and people I've met have been either not ready for a serious committment or have had a lot of baggage from past relationships. If you can meet someone in your highschool that would be great. Also I think that you shouldn't avoid dating seniors. You might meet a serious senior girl that will fall in love with you and will not want to let you go even after she leaves for college.

Answer 5

Date Whoever you like. Just because she's a senior doesn't mean nothing. You might get lucky enough and meet a girl who goes to a community college. The ones that went off to college clearly showed you that they are not your soul mate so just continue looking for that special one.

Answer 6

Honey if your only 16 then you have plenty of women to meet and then decide who your soul mate is. You are very young and the world is very big. Take you time date around have fun but don't get all serious, you just end up with a broken heart. Give yourself time to finish growing and maturing before you try to find your soul mate.

Answer 7

Yes - stick to someone your age at this time in your life. You have to remember though - even if you get together with someone your age, by the time you decide colleges, etc., you may go your separate ways too. Just enjoy life. It hurts when we lose people but it's a part of life - you can always get back in touch again - it's not hopeless or anything. Remember these people in your heart forever and that they are your stepping stones to what your life is going to be when you are settled. You'll end up with the right person when it counts. You are young and you'll be fine.

Answer 8

Soul mate at 16. Hormones are to numerous.
Honestly, if you find a soul mate by 30 you'll be extremely lucky.

Enjoy high school, hang out with your buddies and if you date, just have fun. Don't expect high school loves to last forever. That's part of growing up I guess.

When your older you'll realize that every heartache, and lessons learned will only make you smarter and a better adult.

Answer 9

Well first of all I wouldnt look for anyone online. And second of all I think you should date girls at least a little close to you'r age. And do you really think you'r going to find you'r soul mate in high skool? I think not. But I might be wrong about the soul mate thing cause i'm not in high skool yet. Try to find girls at you'r skool or at you'r friend's parties. But seriously dont go for the online thing. 90% of the ppl on here are lying about sumthing about themselfs. So I wish you luck out in the dating world<3

Answer 10

This is really very brave and wise of you to have older friends than you becaue you can learn a lot from their experiences but you should NEVER EVER be upset if a friend leaves you. Look at it from a different point of view; Why do you call a person "a friend"? Because he/she is there when you need them, be it for fun or work or study or anything. When they are not there for you they are not your friend..so why upset? Anyone who can easily -for any reasons - forget you is not your friend therefore is not worth your emotions getting involved and your time being wasted. Try to make a strong personality for yourself, be a good friend to EVERYONE. In the heart of your heart make sure you have done your share of the deal (friendship) fully with no excuses, if they leave..well that's their loss! Be strong hey, ok? Trust yourself and your powers, you don't need people as much as they need you. Not everyone is as honest as you are.

Answer 11

I think you should avoid looking for your "soul mate" at 16. Wait until after college or during college for that. Just have fun!