My bf and I r in a 5yr long distance relationship....we just got back from cali together...we took a 4 day vacation...but now i cant stop missing him.....i want to get engaged and married but my family doesn't talk abt this...he's gonna be done school in the spring....and its against my religion to date....but they know I talk to him and be with him eventually....what to do.....i dont want to keep calling him it will drive him crazy...
2006-07-11 07:04:45 · 15 answers · asked by chaand5 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then drive him crazy...call him girl
2006-07-11 08:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by penda 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Long distance relationships are hard. Give him some time and if you guys have lasted for 5 years then you must have a very special bond. Also, dont do something you dont believe in. If its against your religion than follow that rule. But I like what fiestygirl said to you....Is it YOUR religion or your parents. Follow only what you believe in and everything else will fall into place...;-)
2006-07-11 14:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by zaney1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Trying to keep good relationship with your bf I am sorry to say that guy easily forgot girls.Second You are in school you both are not mature to see what is write or worng. Give time to your relationship. Remember distance is a true test of relationship. If you can't stop missing him you remember those moments which you spend toghter
2006-07-11 14:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by madboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say to go call him if you love him truly. Tell him how you want to spend your life with him. And about the religion, I'm not a religious person but I would go against my religion to be with my true love. Don't worry, I'm sure you're god would forgive you.
2006-07-11 14:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how far he lives from you but I m in a similar sit. I call and leave messages. I write emails or facebooks. Where ever he has an outlet for receiving messages and he checks I leave him one. Its give me peace of mind that he knows that I miss him and I love him. Give him time. When he has time he will call you for sure!
2006-07-11 14:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by devilskitten2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing you are from a muslim or hindu religion. I based my guess off of your avatar name.
If your religion doesn't let you date, is it really YOUR religion or your parents?
If you believe in this, you're simply going to have to wait.
Break the chain and free your soul I would say.
2006-07-11 14:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by fiestygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS HARD Wait a while then call him to see what he thinks is best because it is both of your decisions if you want to be with him but you will figure something out
2006-07-11 14:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by ftwtnb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your religion & respect your parents..baby you r still too young to be married!enjoy your life..you r still young!marridge is not that easy!you should be responsible & big enough to care for your children & your husband..thats a long road!be patient ! there is a time for everything!
2006-07-11 14:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know one thing.....What is the worst way to MISS some one?.......The worst way to Miss some one is "Sitting right beside them knowing you cant have them.......Leave every thing in the hand of Lord.......Lord will definitely help you to show the correct path.....
2006-07-11 14:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your religion?!?!
2006-07-11 14:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool down and think wisely and work on the real relation
2006-07-11 14:07:45 · answer #11 · answered by oriental_dr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋