It's this guy i've been seeing for about 8 months and i really like him and we're still tryin' to get in a relationship. But he went out of town about two weekends ago and when he came back he told me about how the girls came on to him and showed me pics and videos on his phone of a girl stripping for him. I think he told me this because he thought it would make me want him more.But that really turned me off.I haven't Talked to him much since then but i still like him. Should i let it go and continue to see him or just let him go. I really need ur hlp.
2006-07-11 06:56:16 · 17 answers · asked by Zaya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look. Let me give you some insight. When a guy does that and doesn't tell you about it, he's playing you. When he does tell you that, he wants to show that others desire him. It's an ego thing. He wants to know if you desire him. If you feel for this guy and you want that kind of stuff to stop - and I mean dead in it's tracks - ask him what about you two. He wants to know you find him irresistable. If you really want to know where he stands, ask him straight out for an "exclusive" relationship. Then you'll know. Just protect yourself.
2006-07-11 07:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want a guy that lets other girls strip for him, and is bragging about it to you? If you are still really into him, then you should bring up how what he did turned you off. Because you should be able to talk about stuff like that if you're in a relationship. But then again if it really turns you, maybe it's time to try seeing someone else.
2006-07-11 14:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really liked u he would not have let some girl strip for him. I say dump him and get with someone that cares about ur feelings. U need respect and that is not it
2006-07-11 14:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by southerncherry_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you as much as you do ,, he would not show you what he did with other girls .. infact .. he should not have dont it at all .. depends on how serious you guys are at this point ..
but give him a shot .. if he is a jerk .. it will show and you will know it for sure .. and if he is a good guy .. you will also be able to tell pretty quick ..
give him a chance .. just try not to get too attached to him because you are not very sure about him ..
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2006-07-11 14:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by waleedoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing your thing (hanging out with friends, hobbies, etc) and don't call him. Give it some time and you'll know whether you really want to give this guy the time of day in the future or forget about him.
2006-07-11 14:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. he's not ready for a relationship he want to see a lot of girls and play around.
2006-07-11 14:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who want to impress you by showing you videos and photos of other girls is not a good choice for you.......You must search for some one who impress you not by putting the guns on others shoulder........Rest is your decision.....Best of Luck...
2006-07-11 14:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think that he just showed u that2 turn u on then go and ask him if thats the only reason that he showed that 2 u its really the only way
2006-07-11 14:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by guitar chik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should do what ur heart tells u have been the same thing once and i just left her be but that up to u hun
2006-07-11 14:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by seto952 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just stupid. You need to let him go and find a guy that's little bit more intelligence.
2006-07-11 14:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by IKNOWALL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋