okay here's a story. I met this guy in college about 5 months ago. We had spoken a bit through our school website before, then he came to watch me perform at this Talent competition one night, when it came time for "audience responses" he stood up in front of everyone to say how beautiful he thought I was. It was so sweet, after that we hung out at his apartment w/ his roomates a bit, there was chemistry but he never asked me out on a "real date". And then he told me that he was gonna be transfering to another school in another state to finish up school. Towards the end of the school term he started acting funny like avoiding me or treating me like just "one of the guys" .....at times he'd say he cared but he never acted like it.....the problem was I caught feelings for him, which sucks because i can't seem to turn them off, for a moment I even started thinking that I loved this guy,we haven't spoken or seen each other for 2 months...said he's call, hasn't, how can i get over this guy
2006-07-11 06:52:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ms.Songbird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try giving someone else a chance. If there is no one, ask your friends. Sometimes you just need to start a relationship with someone else to push the old one aside.
2006-07-11 06:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it is time to move on. Every woman has been there but u can't make someone want u and if u try he will run fast, he'll think your crazy, and you'll just make a fool of yourself. Find someone new, just out or ask friends if they know any Good single men. You are too good for some guy who for whatever reason will not call. His made up his mind and so should you. Find someone worthy and will to love. Find positive things to fill you time work on yourself. Good Luck
2006-07-11 07:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter to him and don't send it. Just get out all of the feelings you have bottled up. Spend the rest of the summer doing things you like and being social. You never know when Mr. or Ms. Right will be around the bend.
2006-07-11 06:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your attraction is at a heightened stage and is still there because this could have developed into something special and you know it but never got the opportunity for it to play itself out...time will allow this to fade away or you may soon find another who you can actually share these feelings with...
2006-07-11 06:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, im sorry to hear this... but really i don't know how, maybe you gotta like start doing things and avoid the thoughts and feelings or focus on another guy, im sory i can't give u pro help
2006-07-11 06:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by mychiqui93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and look for a real man and you will be fine that guy was just playing you
2006-07-11 06:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jason N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he digs you but doesn't want to get hurt because of his move.
2006-07-11 06:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i u belive me i just want tell u that dont let him know that u love him if he really love u he will come back to u
2006-07-11 07:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by stud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dimes
2006-07-11 06:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋