Does he still think of me?

Question

I know this guy through my ex(I caught my ex cheating on me, thats wht he is an ex)I ran into this other guy one night and we really hit it off, ended up sharing a bed that night(cuddling only)he comforted me for the fact of me having a rough year dealing with my ex's betrayal. I heard through his friend that he likes me but is freaked at the fact of knowing my ex. I ran into him again a couple months ago and he came to me and said"your killing me", my ex was therre also and was pissed at the fact that we like eachother(even though it should not matter)again him and I seemed to hit it off that night until my ex came and pulled me aside to talk to me and the other guy I really like left. I called him later that night and the conversation ended inhim saying" it was nice seeing you". A few weeks after I sent him a text message, and there was no reply. It has been about 2 months since I have spoken to him, could he still be thinking of me?

Answer 1

Sound`s like your ex put a stop to your new friendship, case of I do`nt want you but nobody else can have you, best thing for you to do is try and pick someone he does not know.GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

Could be. Just phone him and find out. Never let an ex run your life. He lost any say in your life the moment he cheated on you.

You're a grown woman and can date whomever you want to date - and if this guy is interested, schedule some time to go hang out together and see what develops.

Answer 3

I think that he does think about you, and probably often as well. Its sounds like your ex is still attached to you and doesn't want you to see anyone, which is either romantic or completely annoying. I would keep trying to contact him. If you really like him, then sometimes the girl will have to make the first move. If you decide to make it, it would make a statement to your ex saying "leave me to my own choices" and tell your friend your not still tied to your ex.

that what I would do. I hope this makes since and helps.

-Doc-

Answer 4

your ex b/f has no business butting in because he cheating on you .. he should be out of the picture .. second thing .. this guy had his chances with you .. he didnt take them .. maybe because he and your ex are friends or used to be friends .. i hard to tell.

but since he had chances with you and he didnt do anything .. you should not do anything anymore .. if he wants you .. he knows where to find you .. and if he doesnt want you bad enough .. then he doesnt deserve to be with you .. so let it go till he approches you .. and even then .. play a little hard to get game with him .. guys like when they have to work harder for a girl .. just dont make him work too hard .. it might work against you ..

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Answer 5

How I see it, is he likes you. I think he thinks of you. But he also knows your ex, and doesn't want to offend him. It can be very painful to know both sides of a story like that, and I think he's avoiding a conflict between him and your ex. You shouldn't push it. The way the situation is laid out, you could be in for a lot of pain for pursuing it.

Answer 6

Undoubtedly. Though it is painfully obvious that his connection to your ex precludes him from seeking a relationship with you.

If you still have a decent relationship with your ex, talk to him about this guy. He might be able to intercede on your behalf, giving his blessing to a possible union between you and the "other guy".

Answer 7

I am sure he did at first, but you kept letting your ex get in the way. Ditch the ex and tell him that you did and that you want speak to him again. Maybe, he will come back to you. Also ask him why he didn't respond.

Answer 8

As far as he's concerned, his friendship with your ex is of more value than a relationship with you. It's a dead end. You need to move on.

Answer 9

truly i bellieve that he is still thinking about u just that he probably trying to get his mind right and trying to get all his thoughts together or he just don't kno how to apologize for just walking out or not calling and maybe he just not calling bcuz he thinks that it might not work between yall bcuz of ur ex and just can't tell u bcuz it will hurt him to say that it might not work between yall bcuz he likes u tooo much

Answer 10

It's possible that he IS thinking about you, but he is obviously uncomfortable with the whole situation. If nothing has happened yet, don't keep waiting. I doubt that he will be changing his mind.