I have been with my husband for six years, and he just doesn't turn me on anymore. I want to cheat on him so bad, Everywhere I go I see fine @ss men and I want to have hot, passionate sex. I swear, this isn't a joke, I never do it but man does this feeling ever go away?
2006-07-11 06:43:38 · 18 answers · asked by chana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it won't go away unless you make an effort to find interest in him again....small things might do it such as both making a pledge to get back into shape....or making an effort to do something fun once a wekk like a date night or something.
2006-07-11 06:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated. It would devastate my wife if she found out, and I would feel like a heel for doing it even if she didn't. By my own moral code, it's just not something an honorable person does.
If you and your husband have an understanding that you both will be monogamous, then you should talk to him and divorce before exploring other avenues.
But try spicing up your love life with your husband first. Marriages are like ocean waves, which ebb and flow. Perhaps your sex life just needs a kick-start. You might rediscover why you loved him in the first place.
2006-07-11 13:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER cheat when married. Get a divorce first.
Take your thoughts and apply them in your own bed. You can pretend your husband is one of those men you think about. He doesn't have to know what your thinking. Go nuts, daydream in your own bed and try new things with him. It doesn't have to be the same all the time. Just start things, try things you haven't before. I'm pretty sure your husband will be happy with the change as well. If not get a divorce--DON'T CHEAT!!!
2006-07-11 14:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had the same thing for 6 years ,of course,your gonna want something else and thats where love kicks in, you do not hurt the people you love
Your feeling Lust for those fine @ss men .If you went out there a did whats going to be leftover after you do it? nothing .Sex is like your belly after that one time you would want to do it again and again
2006-07-11 13:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by pistol pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will feel like that as long as you are not sexually satisfied with your husband. Cheating won't help, it will make it worse. Buy a battery operated device and dream of the other men - no harm done and you will be happier.
2006-07-11 13:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by someone,somewhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 5 yrs. and I have never felt the need to cheat. I think if you are not turneds on then maybe you should think about ending the marriage, why be married if you are not attracted to your spouse.Then you are just not going to be happy.
2006-07-11 13:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're holding each other back from getting out and doing what you guys want, that is if he wants to go out and have sex with hot women... either open up and start having sex with other men (protected sex that is) and let him do the same with women or end the marriage and find what you think you really want.
2006-07-11 13:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by tripseven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife gave up sex a long time ago.so I told here that I was not giving it up so I love my daughter so I stay.But I have SAFE SEX all the time.Send me a note,Lets talk.
2006-07-11 13:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...you married for better or worse lady.
maybe you dont turn him on anymore? try spicing up the sex life. if you want to cheat, you need to divorce
cheating isnt right
2006-07-11 13:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY SPICING UP YOUR SEX LIFE, IF THAT DOESNT WORK THAN MAYBE YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT DIVORCE RATHER THAN CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBAND
2006-07-11 13:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋