How do you feel about dating outside your race?

Question

Is it hard for those of you who are?

Answer 1

I don't care at all and don't give a crap what other people think about it. If they don't like it they don't have to do it. And besides there are beautiful people of all races and I have never been one to see color or ethnic background

Answer 2

Its not hard at all. Its just like dating someone from your own race. It may be hard for some who only see the difference on the outside.

Answer 3

I have no problems with dating outside of my race. I'm white, my ex husband is black/Puerto Rican. We have a child together, and I also have an adopted daughter from Laos. My kids are well adjusted happy teenagers who look at people for their character not their color. It's a shame that all parents do not teach their kids not to judge people by the color of their skin, but rather decide if you like that person as a human being in general. My kids are well aware that there are racist people in the world, but I also teach them tolerance toward those people. Racism is just an extension of ignorance and fear.
We live in a small Texas town, where you would expect to find a lot of racism. But they do not have any problems in that area. They have white, Mexican, black, and Asian friends.
The biggest thing that we face is when the 3 of us go out together, we do get some looks. But I honestly believe that people are just trying to figure out how we fit together. I have a very fair complexion, my biological daughter looks Puerto Rican, and then of course my other daughter is Asian. Because if you look/smile at the people who are staring, 99 times out of 100 they will smile back and comment on how pretty my girls are.

Answer 4

WHY SHOULD IT MATTER... PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE, weather White, Black, Red , Yellow...How you feel about the person should be all that matters, not there
color.Theres your reasons for war's...Funny I'm white and have some black and yellow friends, By God they put there pants on the same way I do WOW, Sure fooled me..Sweetheart if you are dateing someone outside your race, so what?? You must have seen something in that person to want to date them so who cares what others think....Thats #1 problum with young people today Peer Presure...Do whats in YOUR HEART and to ____ with what others think... GOOD QUESTION LOL ROB

Answer 5

I see absolutely nothing wrong with dating- or even marrying- outside your own race. I don't know if this helps you or not, but I am a Christian and I believe God has a specific will for everyone and a person picked out for them to marry. I don't believe God wants people to marry based upon race but whether or not it His will for them to marry. I have seen many happily married Christian couples who were not of the same race. I hope you find this helpful. :)

Answer 6

We all know that the reason why people date outside of there race. It either has to do with MONEY or Sex. Bottom line.

Answer 7

Frankly, we're all the same race. Biologically speaking, different races can't produce offspring. But as for the meaning of your question, where's the problem? I'm already happily married, but still would have dated my wife if her ethnicity had been different from mine.

Answer 8

that sort of depends on who's what race iam a black woman dating a hispanic man for six years i get a lot of dirty looks by men of my race but if its the other way around its a little bit more exceptible.

Answer 9

Absolutely comfortable. Attitude is what matters most, and all sorts of attitudes are found in all races. The world would be a better place if we were all color blind.
Peace!

Answer 10

Not hard at all, well i havent' met anyone that has trouble with it, but some people give dirty looks, I'm mexican and my wife is White. We get along and have a good relationship, if people don't like it, oh well cause we ain't gonna change.