I live with my parents and my husband and our daughter(18 months) and my son(3) and my mom and dad and my brothe(19)r all in a 4 bedroom house.
Me and my husband dont have enough money to get a place and we pay so much in daycare we can't save anything. my mom dont like my husband there, she wants him out. We all share 1 kitchen and 1 fridge everything i buy everyone uses and my husband complains we have to buy everything.
My mom also butts in when we are trying to discipline the kids and she is jus doing her job which is being a grandma and spoiling them but when we tell them "no" they run 2 my mom!
HELP!!! i tried talking to my mom but not working she keeps doing it.
2006-07-11 06:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by xxcaramelqt19xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i do work!
2006-07-11 06:16:33 · update #1
yes we pay 400.00 rent and electric for everyone and cable and we buy our own food
2006-07-11 06:20:29 · update #2
Sounds like you need to move. You say you can't afford your own place, because you are paying too much for daycare. Try staying at home, raising your children, let your husband work two jobs if necessary to support his family, and get out of your mother's house.
2006-07-11 06:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 11⤊ 3⤋
If I were you I would look into getting an apartment. If you have a extra money to spend, spend it on getting a place of your own you will be happier.
**My family lives with my father, he has a big house and lives alone. I'm a stay at home mom, so I take care of the house and everything else. Sometimes this sort of thing works out and other times it does not**
I think there are to many people in such a small house, so it is really starting to get to your parents.
2006-07-11 14:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by sunflowerlizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you can move out, you're pretty much at their mercy. The house belongs to your parents.
Do you pay your parents rent? If not, stop complaining if they eat the food you buy.
The best advice I can give you is to try to find a way to make more money so that you can move out. Perhaps you might need to move to a cheaper area so that you and your husband can afford the rent with both of you working. This will be a hard thing to do, but it might be best for the long run.
Good luck.
2006-07-11 13:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Pastafarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what I am in the same boat but the other way around. I live with my husbands parents and brothers and sister. Our house is crazy. But you can always get help from the government to help you pay for daycare. Call your local WIC office and ask them. They'll point you in the right direction. They can probably help you apply for low cost housing.
2006-07-11 13:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is right. What did you think was going to happen? Did you think you were going to have people take care of you for the rest of your life? Your poor mother. If she had any sensibility, she'd throw you and your lazy-*ss husband out the house. Both of you may be working, but both of you idiots should have thought about all of this before having children. Who are you to put the burden on your mother because you chose not to grow up? And what the hell is your husband doing? Isn't he man enough to do the job? Times are tough, but it sounds like YOUR the one who put everyone in a mess.
It shows in the selection of who you chose as your mate and it shows that after all these years, your still in the house.
Your having these problems because you didn't grow up and that's not your mother's fault (maybe it is and she didn't realize it).
Your mother wants her space and to live her life. Your selfsih, thankless, and un-appreciative.
Your gonna stay there until your mother drops dead? Then what? If you don't take steps to take care of yourself, reality is going to be merciless and teach you very quick, that NO ONE has to tend to problems your creating.
Grow up and maybe you'll have a chance to survive on your own.
2006-07-11 13:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is there house. There is always ways to save money. Stop buying things that you don't need. Just neccestities. I know daycare is expensive, but you chose to have children. You need to get out on your own
2006-07-11 13:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest you to look for a new place on rent. may be it might be a compromise initially, but i guess eventually you may end up saving some money and can move to a decent place. Your child's future is going to depend on discipline you teach them now. They are now at a very tender age and teachings imparted to them now may go a long way.
2006-07-11 13:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by smilingface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to have kids & a Husband, try getting into the low housing projects. 2 familys cannot live in 1 house, believe me it don't work.
Good luck !!!!!!!!!
2006-07-11 13:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Z-Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Check and see if there are any programs available to help you out.
2006-07-11 13:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop back 10 yards and punt, play the lottery or get a job!
2006-07-11 13:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋