hey guy and girls need some advice. I's it ok for me to talk to my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, i want to figure out what she has done, because she tells me that she made a-lot of mistakes when she was younger, i want to find these out, surprise her with a bunch of flowers, and tell her that i know, and that i still love her, you guys think it's a good idea? I think its two fold, because she knows that ill accept her even though she has faults, but then she could get mad because im figuring out her past, It doesn't worry me, and i know she loves me, give me some ideas guys, thanks, i'm 17, she's 16. I have the curiosity, because that was back then, now shes totally different, i've had my share of girlfriends, and to tell you guys the truth, i think i found the one, been with her for 8 months, she told me some stuff, and the first time i got mad, but i talked to her, and i told her that it's not your fault, and that i will changed, she told me some more, and then i gave her a kiss, and shes getting conmfortable, thanks guys.
2006-07-11 05:51:57 · 12 answers · asked by Jordon H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BAD IDEA!!!
She'll tell you when / if shes ready.
And if shes never ready she'll never tell you and you'll have to accept that.
If you go asking another guy about it will look like you don't trust her. Or like you want to know all the details so you can make a better decision about being with her, even if you already have decided she's the one you want - she'll see it thaty way.
She'll end up mad, and if she's anything like me, you'll end up single.
If you love her, don't chance it.
2006-07-11 05:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just trust ur girlfriend. let bygones be bygones. leave her past alone and stop trying to live in the past. Enjoy the present. If she hasn't told you what these "mistakes" are, she clearly doesn't want to bring those mistakes up. If you're really too curious to just drop it. Ask her about it and if she doesn't want to talk about it, get over ur curiosity and enjoy being with your girlfriend. Everyone has things about their past that they don't want others to know. I'm sure there's even something you've been keeping from your girlfriend about your past...
2006-07-11 06:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by agfreak90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your g/f finds out your trying to snoop about her past you could lose her and cause the break up of your relationship if i had a man in my life that did the idea you stated in your question i would not only hand him back his flowers but it would be over between us what i'm saying to you young man is is i'm 43 let the past be the past just focus on your future together
2006-07-11 05:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past...don't start poking around when & if she wants u to know she will tell u her self....dont put issues of trust on your part inbetween the 2 of you especially if you think u have found the right girl for you...being female myself i would be pissed off if someone startd questioning my ex's for information on me that is really wrong on so many levels...either way good luck with the choice you make!!
2006-07-11 05:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to her ex for advice, that's silly. Trust her and your relationship. In time she will reveal what she wants you to know. Just be there for her like you are and have been. Good luck.
2006-07-11 05:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cuddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let sleeping dogs lay. Don't go digging around in the past, if it's not your past. You already accept her, don't add any unnecessary baggage to the relationship.
2006-07-11 05:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think shes "the one" let her tell you and trust that shell tell you. dont go meddling into her buisness. she will get mad and it may get messy. let the truth open up as time comes.
be patient.
2006-07-11 05:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should just leave it alone if it doesn't worry you and just talk to each other about this then maybe you will find your answer.You just have to trust each other.
2006-07-11 05:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by ftwtnb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her what you are afraid of, if she is i love with you stays with yo, if not let her go as soon or late she leaves you.
2006-07-11 05:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mohsen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out
2006-07-11 05:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋