It seems that in my whole experience with dating or even my to be ex husband are all usually drug addicts,alcoholics,or mean,or all of the above oh yea and poor no credit etc.etc. ya know
2006-07-11 05:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by mara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ha..Ha!! What becomes of the cool bad boy? They get married and they never amount to anything. Should be a lesson for all women.
2006-07-11 05:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I need to forwarn you: there is no such thing as a drug-/alcohol free zone. The wealthiest among us have just the same problem--but they can pay for "private" rehabs and "private" treatments that will not be made public--that's the only difference. If you meet someone, you need to observe them, that's how you can determine wether they do something or not.
Drug users frequently disappear for days or weeks. It costs around 20 bucks nowadays for some crack, so you will actually find more of them among the well-to-do.
With alcohol you can observe how one drinks. Does he/she drink until they fall into a blackout of sorts--get so drunk that they are incoherent? Or do they drink 1-2 drinks and then go home-to the movie, or whatever? For you see, there is a big difference between those who have a problem and those who don't. It is not what they drink, not even how often they drink, but HOW they drink that is important to be observed.
Drug addicts usually disappear for days or even weeks at a stretch, are real good liars, and never have any money to spend on you, so they are easier to recognize.....Good Luck
2006-07-11 05:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never tell what a person in like simply by the place you meet them in. You can meet a great person in a bad place and a bad person in a nice place. There is something you can do however; spend more time in places that YOU like, and you will 'bump into' more men that have the same interests, for starters.
The places you look will 'suggest' the type of person you will meet, (but again, do not judge, as they may be totally different). For example, in a bar you would see men who like to drink. In a Museum, you would see Men who may like History. In an Art Gallery, you will see Men who like Art.. This goes in hand with my suggestion that you go to places that are interesting to YOU - if you meet a man at a ball game and you don't like sports, what kind of man will you probably meet..?
Lastly, even though you are looking very hard in certain places, be open to the 'bumping into' people everywhere you go. The world is a big place and there are many people - someone you pass may be a great match for you.. Have fun!
2006-07-11 06:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Shad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy do I know how you feel? There used to be a time that men and women met 'at church', but there are more females there than anywhere. lately, I have found myself at the barber shop for the last month. The guys I have met there are hilariiously funny, dress pretty neatly, loved to be groomed, engage me in converation and seem to be interested in whatever the conversation, and have also taken me to lunch. GO to the sports bars, games, etfc. YOu're sure to see men there.
2006-07-11 06:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come to my house, we can toss back a few brew skies, get out the hookah and puff away the night. As for the credit problems, we usually get screwed royally in a divorce and the heifer that left doesn't have poor credit problems cause she sticks us with them.
2006-07-11 05:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
High class hotel bars/lounges. There are often business men in town that will frequent these places. Trust me, I've met plenty of women at em. Just dress nice and wait. You'll get approached. But, remember most of them are going to be married whether they tell you or not. It's up to you if you want to be the "other woman".
Good luck with that!
2006-07-11 05:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These types of men like to hang out at after work cafes and bars and social events. They aren't alcoholics but enjoy one drink after work for conversation and to relax. Also libraries and the theatre and places the white color community hang out. You kind of have to be in the right place at the right time
2006-07-11 05:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe it's where you're looking...Honestly, if you want to find a good, decent man.....CHURCH is the answer.
2006-07-11 05:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Songbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell a gold digger...
2006-07-11 05:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋