I have this friend, she and I chill all the time, whether it's out or just stayin in, text back and forth all day every day we call or text each other just to say good night. We have become so close but I can't let her know how I feel at the risk of losing the friendship or hurting it.
2006-07-11 05:37:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell her that you wouldn't want to risk your friendship but you would like to take it one more level by casually dating because you are feeling her.
2006-07-11 05:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I will never understand this. People like you and your friend sound so close and have such a good relationship - why is this subject off limits? You should be able to talk about anything without hurting the relationship. Pick a place where you can sit together and have some coffee or a soda. Let her know how important your friendship is - that you admire her and respect her, but you may be a little confused now and need her help. Ask her what she thinks about you. If I had a friend that was as sensitive as you, caring and loving, I think we could talk about anything. And even if it came up and the decision was that our friendship was more important than a 'love relationship', I would still be happy as a lark. You still have your friend.
2006-07-11 05:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me being a girl I think a good way to approach this would be to be honest. I know not every girl is the same but we tend to like honesty just as long as you are not hurting my feelings. It sounds like you are already in the beginnings of a relationship with her anyways, I don't know too many "Friends" who text each other all the time and even to just say goodnight. Why not make the first move, who knows it could surely pay off. You would sure hate for someone else to come in and sweep her away!! Good luck!!!
2006-07-11 05:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im a girl and im in that same exact situation, but the thing is is tat i dont like making the 1st move so im waiting 4 him 2 and i really want him 2, so if shes the same way she might not make the 1stmove soi really think that you should
2006-07-11 05:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by klo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K.... How 'bout just tell them....Duh
2006-07-11 05:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by catmanbigwil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋