2006-07-11 05:37:06 · 15 answers · asked by philipswales 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. They just have to be more patient than the bad boys.
Finding love as a nice guy depends on finding a woman who is mature enough to know that sharing is more important than "hot" or "cool".
Just as it takes time for men to mature into people who know how to give and take ... women need time to mature into those who will seek out men who have made that trip.
If you're one of those nice guys ... just be patient ... and always be yourself. Keep opening the door for that woman you adore who is chasing the "bad boy" ... keep being there ... keep being decent.
Love always finds those who seek it ... and it tends to last longer with nice guys ... and nice women. Good luck!!
P.S. The ONLY time nice guys actually DO finish last is when it comes to making love!
2006-07-11 05:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the short term yes its part of being a nice guy.
You consider others feelings before doing something so you end up being pushed aside when the forceful guys come along. In the long run I think nice guys come out tops, cos they end up with decent gals that see their value and not superficial ones (hopefully). Being a nice guy, you would have patience though so waiting to be tops shouldn't be a problem.
2006-07-11 05:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Norter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys who don't take risks finish second to last to the nerds in the world of dating.
2006-07-11 05:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mike Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!as long as you dont compromise yourself or somethings you want....you can be a nice guy, and go for what you want every once in a while. Normaly us girls dont notice the nice guys because they dont show up, they let the rude jerks go first...you cant be a nice guy to everyone, you can be selfish every once in a while, you can still be a nice/good guy!!If you really like a girl GO FOR IT, we like upfront men... we dont having to play the guessing game, so we settle for less, as i am sure guys do too..talk 2 me n e time adwn2erthgirl@yahoo.com
2006-07-11 05:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by adwn2erthgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do indeed, sometimes you need to be a p#*%k to get things in this world. you need to disregard the feelings and situation of others at times where you need to push ahead. think of the last sweet in a box. everyone could offer it around but if they're strangers the guy who takes it gets the sweet. now imagine that were a promotion position or a job or a medal or anything.i agree with the guy who said you've to take risks as well.
2006-07-11 05:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by bryanocarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be nice and I came last in the sack race at school. I've never been nice since.
2006-07-11 05:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by Falcone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice guys finish last ,
if you wana get anywhere in life, you got to stand up and fight(not physically) for it.
As Stallone said in a movie....the world meets no one half way.
Always the women go for the cheeky guys, the ones who are the winners, the go-getters, the bastards, womanizers, etc etc
2006-07-18 07:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by robynbiker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice guys who stand out will never finish last! if people can see their nice then they'll wnat 2 know them!
2006-07-17 09:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by twiglet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. My other half is the nicest guy I've ever been with and we're getting married next year, fingers crossed we can save the money in time lol
2006-07-11 05:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by muggle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, self-conscious guys finish last
2006-07-11 05:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋