What do you do about insecurity?

Question

you receive a phone call at ten thirty eleven in the night from a person you know is only your friend. Your boyfriend was beside you he heard the conversation and thinks differently you tell him its nothing but he does not believe so he stays upset with you right through the night and a week or more what do you do?

Answer 1

Dear Vanilla...YOUR BOYFRIEND IS MANIPULATING YOU AND IS NOT TRUSTING YOU!...He is not worthy of you! LOVE IS GIVING--TRUSTING! He is neither...Show him you are NOT going to tolerate such selfishness toward you. Show him you are worth better treatment than that....Or is he just there for SEX? You MUST demand respect! YOU are worth it,Princess!

Answer 2

Surprise him with something that you know he'll love (that involves both of you). For example, show up at his house (when is parents are gone) dressed in something sexy. He'll forget aaaaaalllll about what happened.

Or you just need to talk to him about it. Open communication is very important. If he still doesn't do anything on his part then tell him you're leaving because you need a real man who has control over his emotions.

Answer 3

I would be worried too if someone got a phone call at ten thirty eleven................. Is this a new Time Zone or something...

Answer 4

A week or more.... over a disagreement? Sounds a bit too controlling! You'll never feel secure if you hang with someone who's manipulating you. Tell Bozo to hit the bricks, and find someone who respects you.

Answer 5

You could try telling him that you love him, but you need him to trust you. Trust is very important in a relationship. If you explain that it was only your friend ______, and maybe even tell him exactly what they were calling about, he would feel better about it.

If not you could always just tell him to get over it.