my boyfriend's mom walked in on us kissing, and totally just ... stared - his mom and i used to talk and now she just doesnt - what should i do? should i do anything? help!
2006-07-11 05:10:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw I'm sorry, that kinda thing always does suck. Hopefully it'll go away with time though, and if you stay with the guy, she'll realize that you're with him for more than that and that you actually care about him. Hopefully it will go away with time. Good luck
2006-07-11 05:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old are you? The age thing could be a factor in it. Apologize to his mom for what you and your boyfriend were caught doing.....both of you should apologize not just one. She also may think that you're stealing her baby boy away from her and she doesn't want that happening. Talk to her and find out what the problem is.
2006-07-11 12:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. The mother is an adult and if she is acting like that, then she needs to grow up. Everyone kisses and its not like you two were having sex. I would say just wait a few weeks to see if the mother goes back to the way she was. If she doesn't, oh well. It's a matter of how much you like your b/f. Besides, the mother probably will come around. She is probably just in shock cause she see's her "baby" grow up and she is affraid of that.
2006-07-11 12:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by talkshoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, just let her remain silent for a while. She probably just got a reality check that her lil' boy is growing up.
She'll probably realize sooner or later, that atleast it was only kissing, because she could of walked in on so much more.
2006-07-11 12:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her. Just approach her and ask her why she doesn't talk to you anymore since she walking in on you kissing her son? If you plan on this relationship lasting it is important to address problems with his family members when they occur and not let things go.
2006-07-11 12:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...that's strange. It's just a kiss, his mom should know that that's normal and not get so worked up about it. The best thing to do would be just to gain her trust again...and be more cautious next time.
2006-07-11 12:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at the bright side, now you know for sure that she doesn't like you for his son. Make the necessary efforts for her to like you, if it doesn't work, dump the mother, keep the boyfriend. She's not the one you're going to make out with anyways.
2006-07-11 12:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lynyrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her to find out if it really does bother her. If it does, then try not to make out in front of her. I mean, I know that's what you were doing when she walked in on you two- btu try another area or setting.
2006-07-11 12:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats an uncomfortable situation...i would try just letting it blow over. maybe she's just uncomfortable herself. after some time she should feel ok.
it happened to me many times altho i was kissing my girlfriend not my boyfriend and she didn't just stare she tried to join in...
2006-07-11 12:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by murfeezlaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to wait and know first what your bf's mom feels about you. but for the mean time try offering a gift or something a cake perhaps.. and see what would be her reaction...
2006-07-11 12:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by blake_zander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋