(women) What do you think makes a man attractive?

Question

Seriously.
I don't want physical features because people vary in their looks and looks are the least that matters.

For starter reference of one way to answer you can look at my answer in this question to use as a reference of what I mean.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkyLdlrTYvbbxwottf250pXsy6IX?qid=20060708114846AAPCneM

Be as detailed or as simple as you like, but I'm looking for real answers, out of curiosity.

Please, don't go into physical features, but you may talk about how they may use physical features (like the face, eyes, arms, everthing above the waist) if it is included in your opinion..

Wow, I'm extremely pleased with pretty much all of your answers. I don't think I could choose a best answer lol.
Yes, I'm not looking either, I'm waiting ;)
as several of you have pointed out.

If you have any more words to add feel free to edit your answers I will continually check.

feel free to read that link I gave it's what gave me the idea for my question.

the link takes you to- What do guys think makes a girl attractive. You might just learn something about a guy if you read it.

Thank you for your answers. I enjoy reading them. Feel free to comment/email me on anything I say or in regard to any of my questions or my answers.

All your answers are great, haha ok, but I'm dying here, I want your opinions on my answer to this question.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkyLdlrTYvbbxwottf250pXsy6IX?qid=20060708114846AAPCneM

in addition to your answers here.

feel free to email me with any questions or comments or just talk.

Answer 1

I think what makes a man attractive is his personality. He could be somewhat unattractive, but if he has a strong personality and a good sense of humor that what makes me attracted to someone. I like someone who is affectionate and caring and someone who doesn't care about outward appearances either.

Answer 2

I'm attracted to intellectual men that care for literature and worldly matters. Things like reading politics, the economy, and travel things we may discuss about before bed, ect.

I also enjoy being with a very honest to the point of being blunt man, a man that in reality is very sensitive and emotional but hides it well.

I also like a romantic gentleman, one that loves to adorn the room with rose petals and then ravage me on top of them and is a complete gentlemen, for example my ex would always open the doos for me no matter what, even if we were both exxtrmely pissed at each other he was a gentleman and every where we went he got out first and opened the door.

I think those three things are very important especially a man of faith, a believer in Jesus christ is very very important!

Answer 3

The way he walks. If a man walks confidently, it's very attractive. Also, dressing nicely. Suit and tie is great, but guys can dress casually and not look like slobs.Smiling is another thing. Smiling is friendly, it's outgoing, it's warm. So when someone smiles a lot, it makes others want to be around them. Um...Speech. How a guy talks can be unattractive or attractive. You don't see models or movie stars talking like thugs or like they have no clue what they're talking about. They're free to laugh at what they say and in movies, the voice inflection and tone can be very attractive. (i.e. Viggo Mortensen- deep voice, shy guy, uses it to his advantage.) Best of luck!

Answer 4

What makes a man attractive is, his personality, intelligence, charm, honesty, and a good sense of humor, that's what sets me off personally. A man can be as ugly as a monster, but if he has a good personality, he's not rude, or dishonest, and he tries to do what's right, then people will start to look past his physical appearance

Answer 5

I love a man with a sense of humor because if you can have laughter, you can get through almost anything. Loyalty is another quality that is attractive to me. I want someone in my life that I know that I can count on. Also a strong work ethic is very appealing to me. Even if the man was wealthy, I would want him to be passionate about his life.

Answer 6

he's smile, eyes, personality. i love it when your on a 1st date with a guy and you go out for drinks or dinner and the conversation is great. never ends, always laughing. then going for a walk after wards and still having a great convo. that when it is time to go home you both dont want to leave. even if you guys dont think of each other in a romantic way, having that one night with a great guy and haviong him in your life as a great friend forever is great. yet having romantic feelings for each other is better, but just to know that person is enough.

Answer 7

I look for a man to be just that, a man. Someone who is mature and knows how to treat a lady. A man who knows GOD and lives by that word. Someone who loves to laugh and go for long drives in the fall. I don't care about their build, just not overly obese. A man who is a great listener and leader. I can't follow a man who has no direction in his life. I know this person exist, I just haven't found him yet. Correction, he hasn't found me yet.

Answer 8

Nothing turns me on but a man who is polite, smiles, and has a lite hearted personality, a man who is easy to talk to and is clean in his appearance.
I hate a man who is scraggly and doesn't keep his hair and whiskers trimmed. Forget it if they have nose hair or hair in their ears. I think it is so gross for a man to fart and think its funny. Its a total turn off and if you like me you don't it. Knowing how to be socially acceptable is a good thing in a man.
Intelligence turns me on. Not the know it all kind, but not blatantly stupid either.
I like a man who doesn't constantly boss me around or try to be someone he is not. I cannot stand a man who talks constantly and knows nothing.
Cleanliness is next to Godliness, and I like for a man to be showered and to put deoderant on, have their teeth brushed and a dab of cologne.

Answer 9

well i know u said not to go into physical features but a guys eyes are what truly gets me...it doesnt necessarily have to be their color or anything sometimes certain guys will just have the look ur looking for

Answer 10

A man is attractive, when he respects a woman's individuality, has a positive attitude, respects a relationship in every sense of the word...and participates in nurturing it in love.