I just don't get why it's such a big deal. What's wrong with being a virgin? Since when does not wanting to spread your legs make you a loser? Please explain.
2006-07-11 04:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by pn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never understood this either. I am a guy by the way and I am a virgin myself. I often wonder why being a virgin is such a crime or something of an anathema. We just have not been with anyone. Has it ever occurred that maybe we are waiting on that special someone to marry?
2006-07-12 17:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Enigma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People just make fun of you because they spreaded their legs.Some people respect that your a virgin.I have cousins,sisters,and friends that are not virgins and they respect that i am one.Its notthing wrong with being a virgin,and dont listen to what people may tell you such as you are afraid because you are still a virgin.So dont worry about it,think of it this way these little 13 and 14 year old girls who are not virgins just wanted to have sex for all of the wrong reasons.So dont take it to the head you can stay a virgin for as long as you want.
2006-07-11 12:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by []LiTe SkInNeD CuTiE[] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely correct. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. That is your right and you should be proud of it. Its like baby teeth. Once you lost them, their gone for good. So feel proud and if a guy has a problem with that, then too bad. Hes not the one then. I waited while all my friends were out having sex and now six of them have children and at a lunch reunion thing we had for five years. I am successful as a radiologist and six of my closest friends now have children and mostly low life fathers or fathers that took off. I am proud i chose my life over making a man happy. You should be too. The more power to us women who have morals to succeed instead of being held back.
Hope that helps you in answering your question.
2006-07-11 12:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by miss_meg23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Kids think it's a big deal and that you have to do it to be cool. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. After you have sex with someone, they are going to call you a whore. So which would you rather be? Also think of all diseases you can get. You can't tell who has it by looking at them. If you find a guy that really likes you and you know deep down that he really cares for you, then it's okay to experience a deeper kind of love together, but if you think he is just there to get into your pants, ditch him quick.
2006-07-11 12:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a loser. It's just seen in society today as someone inexperienced with life and love. A naive individual that needs more worldliness and unless they have done everything they just seem to child like to come to with advice or relatively adult questions!
2006-07-11 11:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because being a vergin takes self control. Its easyer to make fun of somthing than to just admit its to hard for you.
2006-07-11 12:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by David S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely nothing wrong with it. If you're a virgin, then I definitely respect you for that. Good for you :)
2006-07-11 11:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no if u r virgin its ur way of thnking...bt plzz do thnk abt boys....if all the gals start saying that i want to be virgin then what the boys will do...
2006-07-11 11:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by frnd_pandey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because they are jealous they didn't wait, they wanted to "fit in" and be "cool".
2006-07-11 12:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Goodbye 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋