Im startin 2 realize how little time durin tha week im spendin wid my gf. Since i wuz 15 ive been usin tha same excuse when she asks me 2 come over. "Sorry i got practice baby" And its true but i got basketball practice from 1-2, wrestlin practice from 2:30-4, weight liftin from 4:30-6:30, and football practice from 6:30-9:30 and by tha time 9:30 gets there im bout beat and thats not even coutin work days! Its goin 2 get even more hectic when school starts but itll slow down round december. But still i feel bad 4 my gf cause she somtimes plans private evenins that i have 2 say i cant go 2 cause of practice and work. Ive done everything on tha weekends i could think of 2 make it up 2 her and she tries 2 plan stuff 4 tha weekend but its just not long enough! Ive tried like everything but none of it lets me feel like i spend enough time wid her. I wuz wonderin if any of u guys had anythin u think i havent tried that i could do 2 make it up 2 her. Any suggestions?
2006-07-11 04:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 tha ppl askin yea im gettin a football and wrestlin scholarship, weightliften is a must cuz its really important 2 tha runnin back position, and basketball helps my conditionin. And not 2 brag but i couldnt treat her more like a queen than i already do that would be impossible. But still thanx 4 tha answers.
2006-07-11 05:00:00 · update #1
i'm a gf in the same situations.. but do you talk to her?.. fall asleep to her voice.. i think that would be really sweet.. txt her from time to time.. you do go to the bathroom right?.. just sweet little things like that would mean so much i'm sure.. try it.. let her know she's not forgotten even when she's not there.. good luck to you
2006-07-11 04:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 8⤊ 2⤋
aight think about what these sports will do for you- do u plan a carreer around them - or some kind of scholarship- if not then I would recommend letting one of them go- because after high school- and after college- sports dont mean a dern thing anymore. I say make more time for her- if you cant then maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship at all.
2006-07-11 04:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES quit some of these sports DUHHHHHHH
are you planning to be a professional wrestler that plays ball on the side and football on the other side... what about school homework and what about personal life... you need to get your priorities straight...
2006-07-11 04:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Grin Reeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't enough time in the day for me to read this question.
Based on the times listed, I'm guessing you're having issues with time management... if your girlfriend is that important to you, you have to decide which of things that is keeping you from seeing her is less important than she is, and then drop it.
2006-07-11 04:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is a fact that we do have a limited time with us. but the beauty is that within this limitation we have to make our life worthwhile. in your case i really don't understand the connection between football, basketball, wresteling and weightlifting. in one line i want to state that "YOU ARE SIMPLY WASTING YOUR TIME". i found many people like you who don't know their goals and do miss good things in their lives like your GF. I really pity her for choosing you. if not for yourself plz change yourself for her. and it will help you. GET FOCUSSED.
2006-07-11 04:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a bed and breakfast...a real nice one...and treat her like a Queen
2006-07-11 04:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give something up. Either one of the pratices or the GF.
2006-07-11 04:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a girlfriend but hang out on the gay site. Hmmmm wanting something else?????
2006-07-11 06:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say to much time at work and not enough for play....
2006-07-11 04:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋