I was seeing this guy who told me he was falling for me. I fell hard for him. We finally slept together and then he disappeared. I haven't seen nor heard from in 4 months. What makes a guy do this? Our relationship started out sincerely. I honestly would never have imagined that he would do this. He flat out will not contact me. So my other question is how can I just forget about him?
2006-07-11 04:22:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-11 04:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by justicejamie888 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. your situation is horrible. i would be so upset and sad if that ever happene to me.
maybe he never loved you. im sure that all he wanted to do was get in your pants. and he did. so he thought he was done and he left. you can tell that he has no heart for leaving you that way. dont even think of him. you should be upset at hime for doing that and just leave him alone. dont try to contact him. dont think of him. im sure it will be hard not to think of him or what he did becus of your past with him. but you can do it. just keep strong.
he might be off doing another girl. he might do the same thing to her too.
forgetting him is the hard part. you should always remember that he broke your heart. so everytime you think of him, think of what he did and be happy that he left you. becus if he had stayed then your relationship would of been a lie. he never loved you. so happy that he is out of your life. move on
2006-07-11 04:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he pulled the old "hit it and quit it" routine. Guys do this all the time. They love the "thrill of the chase", but then once they accomplish their mission, they vanish. Don't take it personal(hard to do I know), but just move on in your life. You gave of yourself because you cared, but he was only "playing". Don't attempt to contact him any more, just put that energy and thought towards a better guy. Sorry he did you that way. Good Luck!
2006-07-11 04:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy can be a problem, but are you sure you can find him? I mean is there a reason why he disappear beside using you?? Try going to his house again with a friend or a group of friend. If he is just using you, then at that point your heart would break and move on. otherwise just find a new guy
2006-07-11 04:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say that he used you. I know how hard that might be to hear but it's true and i'm sorry for that. But remember that karma goes around and it will come back and bit him on the *** and i hope that you are right there to laugh in his face. hun don't worry about him you can and will do better then him and you will find someone who will love, respect, care, and want to be with you. don't sweat over this dude because there are thousands of fish in the sea.
2006-07-11 06:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by lover143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wanted one thing which you provided. But don't let it get you down. You're not the first and I'm sure you won't be the last. One thing you must know is, guys are not alone in doing that. Second, don't wait for him to contact you.. You are your number one priority. Check yourself, and move on.
2006-07-11 05:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by s_4perry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys put a ton of work just into getting you into bed. It sounds like he was a pro at telling you what you wanted to hear. I'm sorry that happened to you. Some guys are just jerks and it's hard to tell when they are players.
2006-07-11 04:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know an exact answer for this question. It could be for many reasons. 1) He was probally going through some things and just felt he had to leave. 2) I hate to say this he could have just being a pig and wanted to hit it and quit it. Sorry!!!!
2006-07-11 04:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all once u have a relationship u cant "juat forget" about it or them and second of all maybe he got scared because he never slept with anyone did u do anything if so maybe his religion prohibits it and he thinks it is best to get away buit still he could of told you
2006-07-11 04:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by monkyfriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in someway i used to be in your situation before..its really hard to forget someone uve learned to love and felt beaten..but the thing is hes just not that in to you and thats the reality..life still has to go on girl..being alone doesnt mean being lonely anyway.. cheer up spend time with those people who really cares for you the most..gooodluck..
2006-07-11 04:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Aveeja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋