Sex is getting boring ?

Question

My b/f and I have had sex 4 or 5 times since I lost my viriginity to him. It's getting very boring. It 's always the same scenerio: Mom home asleep, we are in the den messing around. I ride first then he gets on top. BLah, BLah, BLah ,BLah! I'm sick of it. Can you give me some ideas about how to spice it up? I'll take any suggestions. Positions, places, anything!! I need help.

It's not that I 'm bored, bored, it's just i need more excitement

Answer 1

if you feel your old enough to have sex, then you are old enough to figure out this problem on your own.

Answer 2

You may not like this answer, but that is what sometimes happens when there is no commitment. That is why I am so strong on waiting until the wedding night to have sex for the first time. That is the only right time for people to have sex. Any other way, it can become unspecial. Hope this helps.

By the way, I am sorry that you are bored though.

Answer 3

Anytime you want to improve something, read a book. Seriously. I read this sex book for women (I forgot what it was called--sorry) by women doctors and it was fabulous. Do you know that the women's clitoris is 4 inches from the inside (so its actually bigger than some mens' penis' (lol)? The best way to improve sex is to become educated about your body and his and to communicate to each other what feels good and what doesn't. I recommend: public places (don't get caught--you'll get arrested), kuma sutra, toys (oh so imperative) and porn. Above all..you and your partner have to be willing to explore..or else you'll be bored out your mind.

Answer 4

Well it is hard to play undercover cop and callgirl with your mom asleep in the next room. You can't assume the position. And from my experience vacation sex is the best. Go away for the weekend.

Answer 5

Do it outside. On the grass. In a car. In a graveyard. At a theme park. Do a 69. Let him in the back door. Can you get on the roof? Screw there. Also, get your tongue pierced so when you go down on him that helps. If none of that works, find a guy with a bigger cock. HAHAHAHAH!!!

Answer 6

It's way too early for you to be getting tired of sex! You need to be meantlly engaged in the act and that will help more than any posistion sgeestions anyone can give you... if your already bored with him , then you have other problems in your relationship.

Answer 7

oh man after 4 or 5 times your bored?! Whats wrong with you. I think yall need to spice it up and do some more foreplay. I recommend toys- and doggy.

Answer 8

try handlebars. or hang from the bar in your closet. get a hotel room. shoot a video. in the shower. invite a third person. do it at work. go to a movie that nobody is watching. go hiking. use foreplay with food and toys. do it when dad is home. do it high. do it drunk. fight then have sex. do it differently. do it when mom isn't home.

Answer 9

sex is boring after 4 or 5 times? what you need is a new partner! (shakes head in dissappointment)

Answer 10

well, if your only doing it while your moms asleep that limits your options!! why dont u go over to his house? If you keep on doing it in the same settings under the same circumstances its no wonder its getting boring.

Answer 11

no u r wrong here.it is in ur hands how u do it it should be good.u should always try new things.u will then never find it boring and i tell u that sex is never boring it is the doers who r boring and dont know how 2 do it.